27 yrs old been married eight years and counting........
2006-09-01 15:48:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do talk to him I do stand in fron tof him in my birthday suit ALOT. I am not a nagging person either. And I am quiet except with him.
2006-09-01 16:00:15 · update #1
And last time I checked I was VERY female, LOL act like a lady my skinny white ***; thats funny!
2006-09-01 16:01:21 · update #2
LOL I am very confused Chris. I don't need a make over I put off come ons all the time.
2006-09-01 16:02:52 · update #3
I do shop at VC and fredricks
2006-09-01 16:03:46 · update #4
This is going to sound like a joke, but I'm dead serious: disappear for a while. When he wants something, he'll start looking for you, and then maybe he'll appreciate you when you come back.
If you disappear for a day or two, but leave a message as to where you are, but you can't be contacted, he'll come around. He'll probably be starved and thirsty, but he might apologize as well. Try it and let us know what happens.
2006-09-01 18:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I live like this pretty much everyday too!! I can understand, but the reality is do you seperate like I did at 10 years of marriage, then get back together and have everything good for a while, and now it is the same way it was when I seperated. I say talk, explain what you need and if he doesn't hear you and change, leave now and don't make my mistakes and keep taking him back in hopes he will change!!!
2006-09-01 23:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by jpet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See him! What does he want. Seduce his heart and his needs emotionally. What is he into? I would try really getting into his thoughts. Sometimes we get so caught up in what we think men want and work only on that! What things did you do together when you wer'e getting more attention! Find out what he likes, cook his favorite meal and give himself some alone time if he acts like he wants that. He will come to you and probably act like everything is okay after awhile. Give him sometime and don't be aggresive sometimes men like a challenge! Good Luck!
2006-09-01 23:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 8 years things seem to get regular and boring get a make over redoo the hair and all the good stuff. although football season is here it may get more difficult. my hubby and i have been togather 13 years and about the same time as yours it went south . i decided to make my marrage work we needed a common intrest so i watched football with him and he noticed me real quick after that i was the loudest in the room once i learned the game and we spend more time togather now too
2006-09-01 22:54:50 · answer #4 · answered by angeleyes4you32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he isn't seeing the real you? Is that it? Or has he been temporarily blinded due to an explosion at the mine?
Not sure. Just be yourself, and if he does something the real you is not pleased with or is pleased with, let him know. Maybe he's getting mixed signals.
The freakin question is freakin confusing!
2006-09-01 22:57:21 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"freakin' see you"??? Talk with a little more class, act like a lady and maybe he'll be interested in you
2006-09-01 22:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by puresatin03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nagging gets in the way of his vision
2006-09-01 22:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by myself sheri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand in frount of him in ur birthday suite
2006-09-01 22:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he sees you maybe he's just not interested anymore
2006-09-01 22:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by bolandalbaby@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where something sexy that u know he will not be able to resist don;t change your hair or anythink like that, that would be stupid.
2006-09-01 22:52:58 · answer #10 · answered by Rochelle w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋