my friend we used to be best friends. she still say we are. she ditched me for her so called girl friend because now she is bi. and she didn't even tell me that she was. and she only hangs out with me when her other friend are not there. and she always talking about her gf. and everyone is getting anoyed with her . and i am about to spazz on her. what should i do?
2006-09-01 15:33:34 · 18 answers · asked by i love green day !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
get over it, in 10 years, you probably won't even talk anymore.
2006-09-01 15:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter whether she said both of your are best friends or not. Your friendship is not based on what she said. You will know it for yourself.
Remember she is bi. So, she tend to speak about her gf. Just as if your friend is straight, she'll tend to speak about her bf. It's natural. But it's also normal for you to feel upset / jealous / frustrated / annoyed etc that you're left out of the "best-friends" picture.
Be cool about it. If she's driving you up the wall, try to avoid her for awhile (or much longer depending on the severity) for your sanity. Keep your distance until you can handle her gf topics.
Do not be obliged to continue to be best friends with her. It's good enough that you maintain a normal friendship with her.
Only time will tell if both of you are truly best / closest / true friends. Continue to maintain / create firm solid friendships with others.
Confide in someone you can trust, if these issues bother you again.
2006-09-01 15:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're her friend, give her some space. Don't suffocate her. A lot of girls and boys "ditch" their best friend for a love interest. Those are powerful emotions and when you're in love or when you're infatuated with someone, you want to spend most of your time with that person. A good friend will understand that, give the friend space, and be there for them when that relationship goes wrong (and it eventually will). Just tell her you miss spending time with her.
2006-09-01 15:40:48 · answer #3 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch her and let her see how it feels i used to be done that way until i realized that she is just using me because nobody else was around, tell her about the problem and go from there.
2006-09-01 15:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell if her if you are her best friend than how come she always ditches you for that other girl. Than come to you when she's not around.
2006-09-01 15:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change "best-friend" to and "acquaintance" & she can still have a place in your life.
She sounds like she's going through some changes in her life right now and maybe she needs to do this on her own her way.
Maybe you guys can be close again and maybe you have to reevaluate your relationship with her.
2006-09-01 15:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not worth it, the school year just started, time to make new friends. Just a normal phase of life some of us go through..
2006-09-01 15:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, gay (and "bi") people are really annoying when they first come out -- they just want to hang out with other gay people and talk about how damn happy and fulfilled they are.
She'll eventually get over herself, if you feel like waiting around for her to do it.
2006-09-01 15:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ya know sometimes ppl grow apart when they get older and that seems to be what is goin on with u 2 so maybe u should replace her as ur best friend and move on
2006-09-01 15:36:25 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell her how you feel. if she still treats you as a best friend, she'll understand. if you ask my for my opinion, seems like she only uses you when she got no other friend to hang out with. hope i helped...good luck!
2006-09-01 15:37:37 · answer #10 · answered by hElpPlz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her. When my sister (my bff) started dating her boyfriend, he was all she could talk about!! When I told her I didn't want to hear it, she got mad until I told her that I'd rather hear about her and what she's up to and not what her boyfriend is up to, she calmed down and we talked about things, just like old times.
So be honest but say it with a dash of sweetness!
2006-09-01 15:37:07 · answer #11 · answered by pacific_crush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋