this question is also for the guys, if you found that your girlfriend or wife was looking at porn....
do you think it is disrespectfull, or in anyway similar to cheating?
does it not bother you at all?
2006-09-01 15:21:26 · 40 answers · asked by None 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well i'm a women and if i found out i wouldn't consider it cheating. I would probably feel insecure about myself thinking that i can't add up to the pictures he's gawking at. Then because of insecurities of myself our sex life might suffer. So if you want to continue getting laid for real look at your own women instead.
2006-09-01 15:25:55 · answer #1 · answered by brunettehairapy25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't bother me if we have a good, active sex life. I mean I would feel hurt if he didn't want to have sex with me but was looking at porn all the time. Also, it would make me feel uncomfortable if he was viewing stuff out of the norm, like under 18, animals, bondage, and other things. I know there are certain things that turn on my boyfriend about girls in the porn, but we had a long talk about how those girls are basically fantasy and what they look like doesn't apply to how he feels about me. I don't think it is cheating and I don't think it is disrespectful if he tells me this is something he would like to bring into the picture of our sex life every now and then.
2006-09-01 15:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by Lelly 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's similar than cheating because your looking at another naked man/woman, porn makes people get turned on so your thinking what body you would like to have instead of the person your in a relationship with so yes it is also disrespectful, If I seen my boyfriend/Husband looking at porn I would leave him no questions asked.
So yes it's wrong big time.
2006-09-01 15:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy848 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would feel less of a woman. When you open up the world of Porn or any other images, it robs you of the real reality and then the woman who is in your life has to compete with those images that are now stored in your mind. Porn cheapens a woman and her sexaulity towards her... please don't look at it ... for there is so many things that plays against relationships and marriage.
2006-09-01 15:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think of you could desire to make it sparkling that his penchant for nude image and conversations with different women individuals might desire to stop or the marriage is carried out. this might properly be a remember of admire for you, your marriage and the youngster who he's meant to be a father too. in my opinion, It exhibits an excellent loss of adulthood and that would not bode properly for his being an excellent husband or father. you could no longer make somebody else exchange. He has to do the artwork to beat this habit or to set you loose. i might call for counseling and notice what he says. like all habit , he is going to wish expert help to be certain why it is so unfavorable and offensive . then you definitely will understand the place you stand . If he loves you extra effective than himself, he will knock it off , bypass to counseling and ask you to forgive him, if no longer, you're extra helpful off calling it a mistake and shifting on with your newborn. i'm so sorry.
2016-11-06 06:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by sturms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel as though if my husband has to resort to looking at porn then I am not doing my job! It doesn't make me feel as though he is cheating, it just makes me feel as though we are having a commuinication problem in the bedroom. He wants more, and I am not reading those signals! The answer, more naked time under the sheets! And no I don't think it is cheating unless:
He gets her address, goes to her house and has sex with her. Then, porn is cheating!
2006-09-01 15:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by ladydragondale 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I have had boyfriends that I have bought playboy subscriptions for...so I am not necessarily against porn to begin with. However, if I felt that it was becoming an addiction or hindering their professional or personal life ( especially in the sack with me) than it would be a deal breaker until they got help for it.
2006-09-01 15:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband reads "that stuff". Before we got married, we made an agreement. He had two habits that made me very upset. he kept one and quit one. So i tolerate it because you can only change yourself, not others. In looking at the whole package of a relationship, there will be up sides and down sides. If the positive outweighs the negative, sometimes some of the negative is worth overlooking. My husband fulfills all my dreams in every other way.
2006-09-01 15:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by gerlawgoody1 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It doesn't bother me. I don't see it as being disrespectful. People are sexual and should enjoy being sexual. I don't mind watching a decent porn either by myself or with him. It doesn't change the way I feel about him and I don't believe it effects the way he feels about me. In my opinion, people that take it personal when their significant other looks at porn shouldn't take it as being disrespecful to them. The human is naturally curious. Sorry for the rambling.
2006-09-01 15:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by Stacy B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if the fact was being hidden yes it would bother me. If my spouse was open and apporached me stating that she had an urge to watch porn then no I wouldn't have a problem. May even like to watch it with her....
2006-09-01 15:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋