my friend hubby came home....she spent a lot of $ on her hair (which he told her and gave her the $ to do)&(said to do whatever she want with it) when he got home he told her in front of me that it looked ok ...she called me after i got home and told me that he told her that he really didn't like it.....she was very upset....so......my Q is ....
do u feel, like me that sometimes it is ok to" white" lie about something that will save her( love 1's) feelings.........
2006-09-01 15:21:21 · 12 answers · asked by meemeemee40 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well 4 me i would do a white lie it's better to keep her happy...as long as she wasn't looking like a clown. and when u love someone
and it didn't look hidious...what could it have hurt
2006-09-01 15:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
for me I don what I like, I don't care if my fiance likes it or not. I guess I am just confident that way.... it always bothered me growing up girls changing there hair for guys... if the guys liked blonde they died there hair...
I have natural blonde hair and I got some really nice copper highlights I love them my fiance says they are "ok"
2006-09-01 22:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meh, I'm the youngest girl in my family and when my brothers don't like something, they tell me. I get upset just a little, but I like their honesty. Your friend might be overreacting just a little. Just tell her that at least he cares for her to be honest to her.
2006-09-01 22:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by pacific_crush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes .... it used to b called white lies, but I read in a book .... it's sometimes necessary to tell "polite" lies. Example: a friend comes on an unexpected visit. U just finished early dinner, but u ask her "have u had yours"? She may be v hungry ........ but she'll still say "yes" - this I call a polite lie.
2006-09-01 22:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he thinks other parts of his wife look better. men are not details, women are. men look at the whole picture, not individual parts.
at least he said ok, not , god thats aweful.
maybe if she went out and bought a new outfit he would say the same thing, now, go and get her a new table saw and stand infront of him with it, it will get his attention real quick!
2006-09-01 22:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes...but not really!!! if its a TRUE friend then NO!!! cause they mite hate u or get really upset then not wanna talk to u for the rest of the day or something so sometimes but not all the time!!!!
2006-09-01 22:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by trumpet.girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you know that person well and know that they are overly sensitive then , I think its OK but in the same sense where as that person can handle the truth then by all means tell them the truth..
2006-09-01 22:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Lady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELL, I WOULDN'T EXACTLY SAY THAT IT'S O.K. TO TELL A WHITE LIE, I THINK THAT HE WAS JUST BEING RESPECTFUL IN FRONT OF COMPANY WHICH IS DEFINITELY A PLUS!
2006-09-01 22:24:22 · answer #8 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she can't take the critisim, don't ask. The same applys with men.
2006-09-01 22:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by camchatter101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hard quetion i guess it depend on the situation in urs i think it was okay but why he tell u no offense
2006-09-01 22:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by Hypercutie_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋