How do you know when your boyfriend is hiding somthing from you?
nothing in particualar its just we've been together for 10 months now. Hes 24 im 19, we see eachother 3 or 4 days a week.
When i meet him around xmas he was making $1000 a week , he works for fedex, he would go to bars at least 3-4 times a week, go to partys alot, smoke pot everyday.
This was in the first 2 months of going out together. Then i got pregnant and miscaired , i cheated on him with one of his friends, his other friends got involved in our buisness , but they also knew what i did and didnt tell my bf. So he doesnt trust them as much as he did. He kept me lost the guy i cheated on him with.
But then when he found out i was pregnant he stoped going to partys, stop going to the bars 4 times a week, stoped hanging out with alot of people, deleted a bunch of girls numbers.
My boyfriend told me when we met he was suicidal before when he was 17-18 and then last month he mentioned he went into his medicine cabinet one day and took all the medicine he had, plus 6 percs.
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11 minutes ago
then 2 weeks ago when i was telling him my brother in law can get information on people from his friend thats a cop or somthing , he then started saying , o just to let you know incase he ever decides to look me up , i had a warrent out for my arrest.
but i think it was dropped
11 minutes ago
should i be worried? i dont know if hes hiding somthing else
2006-09-01 15:05:04 · 29 answers · asked by lovesugarkisses 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To everyone thats saying were both crazy, im sure your just perfect huh>?
2006-09-01 15:10:27 · update #1
first clue- you're on yahoo asking this question.
2006-09-01 15:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like he is hiding something. You should be worried, but not in the open, keep it to yourself. I only say this is because he already knows you are worried, why put more pressure on him. I say that because he knows whatever he might of done, was wrong, and needs to fix it, before anything else happens. Then he needs to fix your relationship, to make everything the way it was before the hiding secrets came. BTW cheating is very bad, and I understand where you are coming from, but you shouldn't go it again, or you could lose the guy you have been with for 10 months, and never be reliable again.
2006-09-01 22:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by aim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you having problems trusting him, when it seems to me that he shouldnt be trusting you. I guess when you got pregnant he stopped because he cared about you. He chose a friend over you. If he had a warrant out for his arrest, that doesnt mean that he shouldnt be trusted. It could be for something he did when he was young, if your worried about it find out what it was for.
But I think that you feel guilty about what you did, and your taking it out on him. Why he still has a relationship with you I dont know, he probably feels like all his friends are laughing at him behind his back.
2006-09-01 22:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jack J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately sounds like he is hiding something. Yes you should be worried, not about him but about yourself. you are still young enough to get yourself away from distructive behavior like that and become a better person. You will find somebody who treats you with respect. Him telling you about the warrant only because you might possibly find out is not somebody you want to instill trust in.
2006-09-01 22:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by untchble 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is loyal and sounds like hes generaly a good guy, he did the responsible thing by deleting those girls number and eaed up on the patying and for YOU. but he has some trust issues and who would blame him his friends lie to jim and you cheated on him. its not whats wrong with him its whats wrong with you. hes stresssed out and looking for comfort in the wrong places. because of you.
2006-09-01 22:10:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ur brother in law check him out. better safe than sorry. just dont let him know u did it otherwise u will have a huge problem in ur relationship with regards to trust
2006-09-01 22:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They just dont drop warrants, call your county clerks office and check that out, sounds like your involved with a player, learn from it and go on!
2006-09-01 22:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by edgarrrw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, what a focking mess.
This is a time for you to get help from your family.
Your father and mother , grand parents, etc, talk to them.
I cant help you like this.
Get to some family that is willing to help you.
Good luck
2006-09-01 22:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by dcw13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about what the arrest was for and ask him about anything else you are concerned about as long as you keep eye contact he will know you are interested in him
2006-09-01 22:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by coolandrew2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You 2 have too many problems. Perhaps both of you are better off being apart.
2006-09-01 22:08:10 · answer #10 · answered by John E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl........you are majorly ****** up!!!! You need to stop worrying about him and get your life in order! You are acting like a slutty whore and will end up in the gutter. Nothing else to say!
2006-09-01 22:09:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋