2006-09-01 14:58:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
See a doctor as soon as you can. If you decide to have an abortion, you'll need to get it done soon. If you decide to give birth, it's critical to have medical care. At your age you are a risky pregnancy - your body is still growing and the fetus is leeching all the nutrients and vitamins that you need, making you less healthy and leading to an unhealthy child. The best way to make sure your future child has a chance of being healthy, should you choose to carry to term, is to get medical care as soon as possible. Tell your parents and discuss all of your options with them.
2006-09-01 15:04:34 · answer #1 · answered by Rose D 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, learn to spell. I'm sorry, but I hate that so many people misspell the word 'pregnant'. Why is it so hard?
Next, go to a doctor and get antenatal care sorted out, stay in school and learn how to be a good mother.
Begin taking folic acid, eat well, make sure your parents know and are willing to help and support you, tell the baby's father so that you can better understand what he thinks about this.
I hope that things go well for you, and I wish you all the best for the future.
2006-09-01 22:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find an adult that you trust. Does not have to be your parents. Try a relative or a friends mother, teacher, counselor or someone from a pregnancy hotline. An adult can and needs to steer you thru this. The last thing you need now is to worry about your situation. This includes..where/how to get medical care.....should/how I tell my partents...what are the risks with abortion.....what are the postive/negatives to making an adoption plan for the baby...etc. FIND A TRUSTED adult and let them help you. Remember that you are caring not just for yourself now but for a baby. Get the help and support you need.
Good luck...keep us posted on your progress.
2006-09-01 22:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by sunshineathome74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in school first of all....(pregnant)
You should talk to people and get some advice. If family isn't supportive then you need to talk to a school counciler or a pregnancy crisis place. You are going to need to make a plan. How will you take care of it? Who will help you? Will you live at home with mom and dad? Come up with a plan.
Don't quit school either. There are plenty of resources available for young mothers.
2006-09-01 22:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First...tell your parents, and let them know that you are NOT going to have an abortion...but instead, want their help and support in finding nice adoptive parents. Then figure out a way to still stay in school, and then after the baby is born, feel the satisfaction of giving a child a chance at life and to become somebody in this world. ADOPTION ADOPTION ADOPTION!!!
2006-09-05 19:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by Shell_Lynn99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the best ob/gyn you can find. If you are not ready to be a mother, get in contact with an adoption agency and give someone this beautiful gift you have been given.
Rest and eat well.
And PLEASE do not be pressured to do something you will regret......you can live knowing you gave someone the gift of life, even if you chose not to be the cartaker of that child. Adoption is beautiful
2006-09-01 22:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Sunny And '74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents. It won't be easy but you are young and need someone on your side. Other than keeping the baby, you can put it up for adoption or abort. You need to decide what's best for the baby. Don't go through this alone.
2006-09-01 22:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 17 and pregnant and Im 6 months and still living life it a beautiful blessing truth me and I dont reget...yea we young but if you think about it...its nothing from a different world we are suppose to have kid but just not now...I having a boy and Im happy and cant wait to have my child in my arm to love and hold and care for till the baby grow and take care of them self...so think right and straight and dont let any one stop you from your dream...keep school in mind also college...& make a living for you and your child just dont go crazy having more then one till you have a husband to support you and your child...believe in yourself and dont pretend attention to all those talking in this world jus follow your dream and heart along with your child and keeep it if not give it to some one you think will save this child life and give the child a good life..I keeping mine and have my baby father still with me and maybe getting marry in Feb. 2007 jus keep going in life....Goood LuCK
2006-09-01 22:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't give up hope.
Seems there is some pretty good advice these people have given you.
I wish you and your baby, and the father, the best of luck!
2006-09-02 03:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by sincere12_26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get someone to take pictures of you naked throughout your pregnancy, then open an internet site selling the pics by the time the baby is born youll have enough money to buy a house and educate your child and you. A lot of pervert men will pay a ,ot of money to see you
2006-09-01 22:05:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋