Im a 23yo with very little sexual experience. Ive only had sex once(when I lost my V). This happened about 4yrs ago and was really done on pressure from the guy. So I really dont know squat when it comes down to it. I just feel like when I get into a relationship it might not work due to my inexperience. Are there still dudes out there that appreciate this and are willing to work with women like me? Is there any other females out there that is in their 20s and still a virgin. I feel like Im the only one out there.
2006-09-01 14:53:49 · 7 answers · asked by Sugary Spice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am very proud of you! I am now 26 but waited until I was 23. I am so glad I waited for the right man to be with. He wasn't very experienced either and divorced but I was his second and that was important to me that we both never had like 10 or 20 partners. We are getting married in May and we experience sex together and it's great! I congratulate you for being so virtuous!
2006-09-01 15:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by LNZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my best friends is 35, an absolutely beautiful and engaging woman, and still a virgin. She's also recently found the man of her dreams and they've set a wedding date. My point - you're not alone. (She sometimes confided the same concern to me.)
As to whether inexperience is a downside - don't sweat it. Guys have it harder if they hit their 20's and haven't made it past the "Wow, Oh, Oops!" phase of their learnings. When you're open to the experience, you'll make the right guy incredibly happy.
Good luck and be yourself!
2006-09-01 22:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited until my 20's before I did it. Believe me there are plenty of guys willing to "teach". Take this time to learn what you can about your own body. Read some books. Learn what you like, so that when you have another partner, you will be experienced in your own pleasure. He'll take care of himself, but only you know what feels good to you. This is the most important "experience" you need to know.
2006-09-01 22:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had little experience myself, partly to I lost my virginity due to being raped so ever since then I've been kind more or less turned off by sex. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years. and he is very understanding about it we do have sex but not very often, I know he wishes it was more, but he is a great guy and he understands.
2006-09-01 21:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by macleod709 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a virgin until I met my husband. I think little sexual experience is best. Especially in the eyes of God.
Pray about it, and wait for your husband.
2006-09-01 22:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by MommyBekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, there are women who are over 30 who are still virgins! You have nothing to be ashamed of...If the guy is really caring, he will be understanding and take his time with you.
2006-09-01 21:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex g/f was a virgin when we broke up, hey she is catholic what can i say..i tried but no success...
2006-09-02 00:49:41 · answer #7 · answered by ryder1stgroup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋