why am i the one everyone thats older than me in the next grade up loves to hate!!!!! what have i done! it all started with a few people now i got 21 people all up at my locker yellin at a lil 5'1 skater girl!!! yeah i can fight also but i dont understand is it because im the only ones who stand up to them?? or is it just me... im in 8th grade now but im talkin bout when i was in 7th... i was always fighting eather with words or fist or what ever kind of fighting there could be! exsept guns of course.... im a really funny loud outspoken person i dont really think before i also have ADHD... but thats not doing anything i hope... that may b why i am all hyper all the time.. im always smiling even when i get in a fight... but all theese tall tough grls are always trying to like kill me! girls are always nasty at this age but i dont no... im the only girl in my school with this problum dose any1 els have theese problums??? i cant fit the whole rest and u prob dont wanna hear it...
2006-09-01 14:51:45 · 16 answers · asked by why hello there 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
but it was constant and it will go on forever ive been fighting witha few of them scince i was in kindergarden! im pritty tough though.. i play softball on travaling teams and im really strong! i dont see why people would wanna mess wit me.. even though there giants compared to me.... maybe they hate me cuz ill be a b i t c h right back to them anyone that has been going through this please tell me and tell me what happens!!! i really wanna no! AND NO1 SAY ANYTHING BOUT MY SPELLING BECAUSE IM NOT PAYING ATTENSION TO IT RIGHT NOW!
2006-09-01 14:54:13 · update #1
I WANT ANSERS FROM TEENS! NO PEOPLE THAT SAY THEVE WENT THROUGH THINGS.. BECAUSE THE WORLD S DIFFRENT NOW U DONT UNDERSTAND!
2006-09-01 14:54:48 · update #2
yes i take medication NO i dont have anger manigment but i have been puttin up with this for a long time and have wanted to do it all by myself and i have no friends to stand by me cuz there scard of all of them!!! AND BELEAVE IT OR NOT 1 OF THE GIRLS GOT THERE DANCE TAKEN AWAY CUZ SHES GOTTIN SO MANY CHANCES TO LEAVE ME ALONE.. AND THE VICE PRINIBLE TOLD HER SHE GOT HER DANCE TAKEN AWAY CUZ SHE BOTHERD ME AGAIN BUT IN THE END I THOUGH u no what u only get one chance to be at this dance it never happens again so i let her go to it even though she put me through hell and lied right to my face infront of a teacher.. the teacher new she was b u l l s h i t i n though...
2006-09-01 15:10:22 · update #3
Don't commit suicide!!!!
2006-09-01 14:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Your right, I don't wanna hear the rest...well, heck, i didn't even wanna hear this much. You sound like a smart a s s little b i t c h to me. Thats probably why everyone is "hatin'" I'm thinking you should get on a stronger medication, b/c you have some serious issues. Your in 8th grade and fighting all the time? Don't you see anything wrong with this? One of these days when you get your butt kicked, don't go crying on Yahoo! Answers, cuz I will write "HAHAHAHAHAHA! Thats what you get. Wish it could have been me!!"
2006-09-01 17:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by hello_heather_03 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your spelling is really horrible. Anyways , they pick on you because you are loud, always smiling, a skater, hyper, outspoken, and you will fight back. You are giving them everything that they want ! Stop it ! Try ignoring them !!!
I am only 22. I haven't been out of school for that long.
You are very rude and disrespectful !!!! That's also a problem !!!
2006-09-01 14:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let's say you have a stick and you come across two dogs. You poke the first dog with the stick (I don't know why, you're just a terrible person). The dog yawns at you and falls asleep. You poke the second dog with the stick. This one starts barking, running around you, chewing on your pant leg, and in general completely overreacts. You learn that the second dog is way more fun to poke.
They like your reaction, so they keep making you react.
Change your tactics, and they'll find someone more fun to poke.
...unless you like having a reason to fight, which I suspect you might.
2006-09-01 14:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Glad you mentioned the ADD because that really is the key. Try looking up some books for teens with ADD or talking to a councelor about this. It is totally related to ADD because ADD is way more than just being hyper. It also means you may not be able to pick up social cues naturally. There is a book called something like "What does everyone else know that I don't".
2006-09-01 14:56:01 · answer #5 · answered by lorgurus 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You did good at spelling for as mad as you seem. Do you take meds for ADHD?If not talk to your parents then a doc and no I am not saying drug her up. The right one will calm you down some and help you think instead of acting. Also girls pick bcuz most of the time they are jealous or they seem threatened. I would not let it get to me they are getting what they want from you bcuz you are reacting to them. Another thing that might be a good thing for you is to talk to someone(teacher,counselor,psychiatrist). My daughter is ADHD & it has helped alot with her. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-01 15:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by blueseawale 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Probably was the result of overly permissive parenting, not enough discipline, lack of spanking.
2006-09-01 16:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by O'Shea 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its called jealousy. there are just jealous of you and they can't stand it so they have to put you down. it may not be all of them. especially if there is a "leader" she may have convinced the others to hate you because she does.
2006-09-01 14:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by Rx 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
don't worry i have problems something like that too if you need anybody to talk to i have yahoo messenger, yahoo, 360, and email
2006-09-01 16:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by rabbit lover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cuz they get off pushing ur buttons
try taking anger management course
2006-09-01 15:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by native,pride 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
im kinda connfused but im sorry your having a hard time
pray about it and try to stay calm when your around these people
talk to a close friend about it and let out your feelings
2006-09-01 14:55:32 · answer #11 · answered by .:Blair:. 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋