2006-09-01 14:22:30 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
by the way i am not jelous i just wnat her to be hurt , yeah the guy is really good , he is handsome , sweet , but u know he sees her only once aweek , and i know that they have adoroble sex when she taks about him her eyes just sprinkling that time i am glad and happy to see her so , but other days she worries so much that my heart just full of blood that moment , that'all .
2006-09-01 14:35:59 · update #1
and one more , she is not asking him to leave the family she just happy when she ses him
2006-09-01 14:37:17 · update #2
Hi, although I don't know how to help you, I could tell you jokes to help you feel better. The jokes goes:
-Doctor! I have a serious problem, I can never remember what i just said.
-When did you first notice this problem?
-What problem?
One more joke:
A guy calls his vet and says "What should I do with my cat?Vet says "What do you mean? Guy says "I had a leak in my lawnmowers gas tank and the cat drank the gas. Then the cat began to run around and around the yard, climbed a tree. then fell out of the tree stiff. Vet says "Is the cat dead? Guy replies "nope he ran out of gas.
Last of all just want to tell you that whatever you do, just don't give up. Also you must love and care for the people around you. In that way they will also show you the love that you show to them. Just be yourself and happy everyday. Wish you all the best and good luck!!
2006-09-06 04:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably likes the added excitement and drama of being the "other woman." But she probably has low points, too, when she feels ugly and dirt and unloved. Remind her of these times and that she's worth a man who will see her all the time, not just when it works for him.
And if she thinks they'll be together some day, point out that if he cheated WITH her, he'll cheat ON her.
Also, she's not special to him. If she leaves him, he'll just find another woman to have an affair with. He just wants the drama and attention.
2006-09-01 14:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the hardest part of friendship is helping friends make good decisions, but knowing when to shrug your shoulders and back off...
You've told her and told her, now back off and wait for the night she calls you crying with a broken heart and really needs your friendship. Oh yeah, and wait at least 24 hours after that to say "I told you so!"
2006-09-01 14:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be she will get hurt because he will never leave his wife for her.She's just free booty.When she find out on her own she will come crying to you and say she can't believe it.She should know that what she's doing is wrong and she will reap what she sow.It will come back on her alot worst.She should put herself in that wife shoes and if he have kids they Lord help her.
2006-09-01 14:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your place to change her mind. If you've made your feelings clear on the subject once, leave it at that. Just be ready for when it's over and she needs a shoulder to cry on. And try not to say you told her so!
2006-09-01 15:46:38 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have good intentions, but until she see him for what he is, No good, she won't listen. He's going to string her along until he see how serious she may be & can cause him problems with his marriage or wife. Then he's going to drop her like she has a virus. Just be there for her when this happens, having gone through this before, it will happen.
2006-09-01 14:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just going to ruin her own life in the end. She'll just end up hurting herself. Trust me. The guy is never going to leave his wife for her. Most of the time, the guy is just having fun with her. I've said many times to my lover that I would leave my H for him...and in the end, I never did.
2006-09-01 16:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by SimpleGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an anonymous phone call to the wife. Either she'll dump this guy and he won't be married anymore or this guy will try to save his marriage and break it off with your friend. I know it sounds harsh, but honey, married men are off limits!
2006-09-01 14:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's really nothing you can do to change her mind cuz she's too dumb to realize her mistake. If she won't listen to you, then just let her be...she will eventually get hurt anyway then when she comes back running to you for support, just tell her you told her so but she just didn't listen.
2006-09-01 14:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it but when it falls down just be her support and comfort her because it is going to fall a part believe me my friend is in the same situation .
2006-09-06 17:43:59 · answer #10 · answered by marrissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋