ok soo...i have been so depressed today. i never go anywhere to do anything, and i never get out to see my friends. and when i want to i never can. today i wanted to go to a football game at my high school but i couldnt go to that either. and then im just so depressed over everything bad that happens and my upset mood makes more bad things happen. and the harder i try to be happy the worse it gets. and the one guy that i thought would care isnt online and isnt answering his cell phone...i just wish i had someone who cared. but they all seem to go on with their lives and i just sit here and cry because all im doing is messing up my life..what should i do to get happier? any suggestions?
2006-09-01 14:09:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Find anything positive and go with it!!!! Hobbies etc. You seem young and soon you will be able to do more things. Great things come to lose who wait!!!!
2006-09-01 14:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for all the trouble, reassess your life, take time to reflect on what you have accomplished and what you want to do. This online thing, is a crock anyway, most of these people on here arent in this for a REAL relationship, its all just "smoke and mirrors" nothing but games, internet relationships should be the LAST thing on your mind. Things happen for a reason, and sometimes you just have to deal with the bad that comes with all the good. No life is perfect, and there are gonna be bad times, but you have to keep going and stop the "pitty party" get up and start living. Maybe you not going to a ball game was a blessing in disguise, like I said, everything happens for a reason. If you had gone out when you wanted to, theres no telling what would have gone on, maybe this is GODS way of keeping you out of harms way, you understand? All of our lives are directed by a higher force, believe it or not. Take it all in stride and just take it one day at a time, you never know what the next day will bring. Sit back and relax, this depression you have will not last forever, I promise. Take care. Good luck!
2006-09-01 14:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Tennman...
Sweetie, it sounds like you have depression, period.
Maybe you should see a doctor and figure out what's going on. Don't be shy in telling him or her your feelings. It's nothing to be ashamed about and if it is worth feeling better, then go for it!
I have suffered from depression during different times of my life and know how miserable it can be. Just know there is help out there, people to talk to, and effective medications that can help you.
God bless you...and I hope you take these words to heart, and not because I want points.
2006-09-03 03:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.PS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I deffinately know how you feel. Once your in a bad mood its hard to get out of it. I always just take some time out for myself. Being surrounded by people while your upset sometimes isn't the best idea. Its very easy to take someone the wrong way or vice versa. Once you've melowed out and refreshed yourself, then put yourself amongst others. But for now, painting your toes, giving yourself a facial, watching a movie, and veggie out is the best advice I have for tonight.
2006-09-01 14:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a day when you and yur friends are allowed to get to gether set it a head of time and the guy will probably be home tomarrow
2006-09-01 14:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by sissy_angel92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to go anywhere and relax me if I'm feel in bad all i have to do is relax and i feel better and happy and always remember don't let anything rain on your parade
2006-09-01 14:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by denise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a f u c k i n g Emo....that stage takes to long...go straight to Goth...it's more, dare I say..."Fun"?
2006-09-01 14:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a psychiatrist
2006-09-01 14:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by Vendetta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find more strength in yourself kid because htere are so many wonderful things in this life. Hang in there
2006-09-01 14:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by likeskansas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I feel sad sometimes too!
2006-09-01 14:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋