what to say. how can i help my friend?
2006-09-01 14:03:13 · 15 answers · asked by Nino C 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Don't say anything. You don't need to make up speeches and be all worldly and all that. You do need to be there for her. Sometimes, holding someone's hand is better than anything.
That's a good friend.
2006-09-01 14:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by Stuart 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust us when we say you just have to be there.You will manage to find the right things to say and do.Your friend will find comfort in knowing you cared enough to be there for her.Most of us on theis site have experienced a loss and were glad to have the support of family and friends.
2006-09-01 14:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwee...so sorry to hear that sad news hon.
well, you find a sweet meaningful card and tell her with a nice big warm hug that if she needs ANYthing- to call you first!..
That you will be there for her is she wants to talk about all the wonderful good things her aunt was known for.
sincerity is the best,
good luck to you hon...
2006-09-01 14:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by x-factor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It,s never easy and I never know what to say at funerals or wakes. But just being there for her and if she needs support or maybe take her out somewhere to get her mind off things for a while.
2006-09-01 14:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by Iknowthisone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't know what to say, but are there for her. Just sit with her, and listen if she needs to talk. Tell her you love her. That's all you can do, because words don't help.
2006-09-01 14:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by Tina K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that what she's doing isn't sturdy. tell her to not have intercourse anymore or she'll get pregnant lower back. Say which you do not sense sturdy approximately her doing that form of stuff each and all of the time. additionally tell her that her boyfriends will only keep dumping her too
2016-10-01 04:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by marrone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, you dont have to say anything, just be there for her, and help her thru this difficult time. It can be hard, losing a loved one, and at that time, all they need is a shoulder to cry on. So be there for her, and everything will be alright
2006-09-01 14:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is uasually nothing much you can say besides im here for you. let ur friend know that she could call you if she needs you any time. its a process give her time. allow her to grieve but dont act like ur walking on egg shells around her.
2006-09-01 14:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by theskyispink v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your friend to dinner or a movie, to help her feel better about her loss. Just "be there" when shen needs you.
2006-09-01 14:08:28 · answer #9 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are sorry for her loss and let her know that if she needs help, someone to talk to or cry on, or whatever that you are there for her.
2006-09-01 14:05:50 · answer #10 · answered by nikkimccarty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋