A friend of mine, who i also lives with gets mad easily. Like 2 nights ago, I was at work and she sent me a cellphone text message telling me she left her home keys at her office so she couldnt go inside our place. So she told me if theres a way that I can GO HOME AND GIVE HER MY KEYS. And i was thinking..hey her office is like a 5 minute drive from our place, mine's far.So i replied to her message and told her i cant because im at work and i have so many things to do.She got mad, she's like that she gets mad if you dont do something for her. How will you deal with this?I dont want to be mean to her but she's not the type who listens.. thanks people!
2006-09-01 13:49:48 · 13 answers · asked by Skitams 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well. She may be sensitive but this is just plain needy! Maybe there's something that she's not telling you or this is really recent. Either way you need to do some detective work. Even if your friend is sensitive you need to sit down and just explain your having a few troubles with her. Don't make accusations. Take her out to have coffee and just chat for a while.
2006-09-01 13:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to have a friend like that ever since my childhood. But guess what? I let her go. I don't think she'd learn to calm down, until she actually will change for better. Have a sitdown and talk to her about it. If she doesn't understand, then wait for the right time to move out.
2006-09-01 14:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by azngurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have could desire to could desire to show him a touch greater project then you certainly could desire to be feeling. in case you rather should be with them, the main suitable you're able to do is artwork with them. in the event that they have a project wth some thing and start to nag you, take a seat with them and communicate approximately it. once you the two come to an contract on the way it makes the different sense, this is going to develop into greater ordinary to handle them.
2016-10-01 04:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by marrone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be friends with her. She is manipulative and controlling. I was married to someone like that once, and it was a bad scene all the way through.
You will still be able to live a normal and happy life if you never see her again. I promise.
2006-09-01 13:53:22 · answer #4 · answered by Cattlemanbob 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oooooh, this could be a toughie!!! try to CALMLY chat it out w/ her, and if not, try to see if you notice anything that could really be getting at her.... if she is depressed or upset over something, it could affect how she treats others... on the other hand, she could just have been a spoiled lil' brat and never got over herself.... either way, take it lightly and if it's too bothersome, try other living arrangements, if at all possible. best wishes to you!!!!
2006-09-01 14:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit her down one day and tell her how you feel about her. Make sure you tell it to her nice and easy, and PLEASE DON'T SAY ANYTHING CRAZY!!!!!!! Let her explain Her point of view, and Really LISTEN. Hopefully, this works, but if it doesn't, well, time to get a new Friend. I wish you the best!!!! :-)
2006-09-01 13:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is a selfish control freak and wants people to be her slaves.
Find another place to live or a new roommate.
2006-09-01 13:51:59 · answer #7 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As we say where I grew up She needs to be treated with velvet gloves"
2006-09-01 13:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by aaricka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what i would do is ask her what is bothering her...is there something wrong in her liffe..if not ask her maybe to just take off of work day n go to a spa and relax
2006-09-01 13:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your place, I would leave her and live on my own. I will not sacrifice my peace of mind.
2006-09-01 13:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by Mercie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋