So what should i do? She said that if i don't become a christian,she wouldn't be with me anymore. I thought Christian people should be open-minded and accept differrent kind of people. What should i do to make her stay?
2006-09-01 13:42:12 · 11 answers · asked by takurahirosue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My husband is christian but he did not ask me to change as i wouldn't i have my Owen beliefs and that's not one of them you can still be together its only when marriage comes into it its hard but we went Anglican as that's what i wanted. You should not have to change for someone if you want to that's fine but it has to be what you want as well taking on Christianity is a big step and alto of rules that you must stick by to get into the House of god so think before you make this step. as if you break up in the long run you still have the religion you choose to stick by.
2006-09-01 13:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by sweety yhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Christians" are not open minded people at all. They like to say that they love everyone, but they only love people just like themselves. Step back and take a good look at the situation.
Do you have any interest in becoming a christian?
Do you have any interest in being with someone who doesn't like you just the way you are?
Do you honestly want to change yourself for the sake of a GIRLFRIEND?
Do you really want her to stay?
How would she react if you told her that you wouldn't be with her anymore unless she gave up christianity?
This should answer your question.
2006-09-01 20:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If being a christian is something you are wanting to do then do it. If it's something you don't have an interest in then don't. It's your life. She should like you for who you are and not trying to change you. Especially something as dramatic as a religion.
2006-09-01 20:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by bluerose77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am christian and my soon to be husband is muslim. i think that if you truly love someone their religion is a part of them that should be respected. it is up to each partner to decide if he or she wants to change their faith. this is a tough issue and i wish you the best of luck. all i can tell you is be true to yourself and what you believe.
2006-09-01 20:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm this is a tough one but if she doesn't respect you and your belifes then she is not worth being with but on the other hand maybe you should look at what she belives in and maybe think about converting or try to convert her best of luck to you
2006-09-01 20:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two people can not be together unless they have the same ideals and morals. She is doing what she considers right, accept it and move on.
2006-09-01 20:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by old man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her that ...u can believe in god and all but dont mean u gotta go to church and stuff if u dont want to
2006-09-01 20:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
must obey her cause she cann't any way to make or leave her!!!!
2006-09-01 20:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she can't love you for who you are, RUN!
2006-09-01 20:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't make her do anything
2006-09-01 20:45:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋