ok theres this guy that i really like and he had asked me out some time back, but i said no cuz i felt still to young to have a bf(i know dumb). and i had always liked him, but now he has a gf whom he's been for like half a yr. on and off. well the girl cheated on him and he broke up with her then they were together again. my question is i dont know if he likes me or if he is just using me, cuz he at times tells me i love u (sopposevly him as a best friend) and sometimes he's even told me im beautiful or stuff but then says "sorry its cuz i couldnt help it". my friend says he is just udsing me as a extra plate, but once he even asked me y i didnt go out with him last time..i told him y and he said that its cuz he was with that thought ever since and wanted to know. he also once told my same friend that he wished he hadnt met his girlfriend because he thought i was fun to be with and wanted to be with me. so im kinda confused right now so please help with good answers or just ur thought
2006-09-01 13:13:24 · 25 answers · asked by La Shorty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well...I have read your "question" and if you think you are confused, just try to imagine us poor soles who had to read that mess.
On a side note, may I suggest you learn how to spell. Once you master this task, you should begin working on mastering sentence structure. Once you achieve these two goals you will be able to ask clear questions. Hope this helps.
2006-09-01 13:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by An Unhappy Yahoo User 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right to not get into a relationship at a young age. Stay friends with him, but tell him again you are not ready for more and do not want to hear him tell you those things.
Even if that is not exactly true anymore, while he is still involved with another girl, he has no right to mess with your heart.
2006-09-01 13:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by Tina K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like most teens you are to anxious to get into an exclusive relationship. what is wrong with "playing the field" and staying available. it means you will have to risk setting home on a saturday night sometimes. but at this point in your life you should be all about fun and making friends. i remember the most popular girl at my school. she did not have a steady bf but very seldom sat home on the weekend. because she did not have a steady she had a lot of guys interested in going out with her. she was the prom queen and went to the prom with the first guy that asked her. you will have a lot of "loves" in your life before you find that special one. but if you tie yourself down to one guy you might miss him when he comes by.
2006-09-01 13:27:50 · answer #3 · answered by handyman5218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay when a guy says "I love you." (not luv ya or anything like that) it means one of two things- he wants to get in your pants, or he really does. And if you aren't known as a whore then he most like has very strong feelings for you... expecially since its been how long?? and you said that he has his girlfriend now?? pshhh more like SHE is the extra plate... i know it seems hard but the best thing to do is to talk to this guy about it and he will dump his gf (if he really does line you) and date you.. dont be worried about age! as long as you are over 11 you're safe.
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2006-09-01 13:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by elemenopee. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me guss your in middle school or something and this silly drama happens all the time then. your not the only one confused, he is too and so is everyone else. try not to make it such a serious part of life just yt. If he ever gives you the hint that he lkes you again tell him to come bak after he's done with his girlfriend.
2006-09-01 13:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by 123456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 19:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loved you he would be responsible about his actions. Someone who genuinely loved you would not use you. If his feeling are genuine then be patient and watch him. Love is patient, love is kind, love does not resent or insist on its own way. Watch him and see what the fruit of his 'love' produces. If his love is one of anger, jealousy, frustration - then maybe he has no love for you in a true manner. Perfect love cast out all fear. The truest of love is willing and does lay down his life for you. True love has a fruit of responsibility always wanting what is best for you even if it hurts him in the process. True love waits and is not driven by lust. True love is driven by true responsibility for the loved one and willingness to sacrifice for the loved one. Love is patient and kind. Ask the Lord to show you the way! Jesus Loves you more then any man can or will in your life dear. He waits by your bedside when you are thinking at night waiting for you to ask for his view on things. God bless ya!
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2006-09-01 13:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhmm..
boys are a dime a dozen. especially at your age.
if he gets the balls to break up with the other to go for you, then consider dating him THEN. for now, watch what he does with his girlfriend, cause if that is ever YOU, he'll probably repeat the same actions with you. Make sure you like how he has and is treating her.. it's definately a good insight of how he is in a relationship.
2006-09-01 13:21:41 · answer #8 · answered by senacia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he is prolly using you...he seems stuck on his ex since he went back to her even after she cheated...so he obvioulsy has issues of self esteem...so that means he is prollly using you to make himself feel better about himself (prove he still has "it") and wants you to tell him he is hot, and cool and you want to be with him....so in my opinion, you should beware...but if u cant stay away....then do this....dont give him anything (nothing as in no way to "release his tension"--none at all!!! ) then see how he reacts after 1 or 2 months..if he is true..then he will wait for you (and make sure he isnt getting it elsewhere, or he wont have any trouble waiting for you to come around in that respect bc he will have someone else helping him out in that regard)...so he will either stick with you and wait it out, or become bored and leave...
works everytime
2006-09-01 13:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by derek s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i know exactly how you feel and really the feeling is confused well if i were you i would tell him how you feel when he is not going out with that other girl and hope that he feels the same way trust me all you have to do after that is hope he asks you out and he will trust me it works i did the same thing when i was in your position
2006-09-01 13:20:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋