We've been (happily) married for less than 2 months and I can't bring myself to tell him about these dreams I've been having. They'll make him sad. I find them disturbing.
2006-09-01 13:00:06 · 20 answers · asked by Friz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're married!!! Simple as that... you had freedom before, now its legal.. Your subconcious is turning the loss of freedom into all sorts of dreams.. You feel tied & are afraid of being hurt.. Do you have kids? If you don't - perhaps its a fear of the next step.. far longer lasting...
Have fun!
2006-09-01 23:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by want_to_explore_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go see someone about your dreams,if you keep them to yourself,they will not go away,but will intensify...and you are right,the least the dreams you are having will do is make your hubby sad,he will worry about you and then you will both have a problem,not good at the start of a marriage built to last!!
2006-09-01 20:12:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreans are a way of our brains emptying out all the garbage at the end of the day.
All that this dream means is that, probably because you are a fairly recent wife, you are feeling a little insecure.
Give it a little time & it will all settle down & the dreams will stop. Relax a little.
2006-09-02 03:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by monkeyface 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the dream just for a laugh, but really the dream should not scare u, i guess you love him too much and subconsciously your dream says all you hope he won't do to you.
put the dream behind you and pls try to enjoy your marriage, the devil just wants your marriage to fail and remember relationships break down when there are doubts, insecurity, lack of trust and fear.
just remember, it is only a dream, so do not take it seriously, he has not done anything wrong, and pls don't go running to so called dream interpreters etc, they will only help in confusing you the more and eventually breaking up your marriage.
pls pls value wat u have and good luck.
2006-09-01 23:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all u have to do is just speak to him because it is only a dream it means u have NIGHTMARES honey! Well do u believe in someone u married is abusive? u need to be opened he sleeps beside u in bed at night so why not? AFTER ALL IT DID HAPPEN AND IT IS SCARING U find out what he's up to so then that won't scare u so much.
2006-09-01 20:08:13 · answer #5 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that just means that your insecure about your relationship i have the same dreams to this day if you look up interpreting dreams and look under husband s and wifes section it will tell you what dreams mean im not sure if you can do it online or you might have to buy a book
2006-09-01 20:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by shine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u have a fear of losing him
have u talked him abou the dreams ?
it could put ur mind at rest if u do tell him how u feel inside n wot u dream about
2006-09-01 22:15:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one thing i know is that what u dream the opposite happens...
so he´s not trying to kill, he´s being totally honest with u, he´ll never cheat on u or hurt u in any way!
good luck..
2006-09-01 20:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Sus-Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you love him so much that subconsieously you worry that something might happen to spoil your happiness. Dreams aren't as obvious as they read, they usually mean the opposite.
2006-09-01 20:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got insecurity down to a fine art. Work on it.
2006-09-02 17:54:41 · answer #10 · answered by Noadonis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋