like this boy...he hangs out with the crowd who partys alot and he is a high school dropout. He dirtbikes alot and is really really hott. Like probly the hottest guy i've ever seen...I don't talk 2 him alot..just on a fake msn lol..and he says really really romantic things and is so cute...I have seen a couple pics of him and he is so hott... I fantasize about him alot...He lives about 30 mins away from me..I am 16 turning..and he is 18..I am in my last year of high school..I also don't have a lot of older friends that are "bad" eg. parting..stuff like that..What should I do..I really like him lol..I feel so dumb..I also find myself fantasizing our apartment, sex life, romance, the whole thing and its weird..my friend likes him to and we talk about him alot..help!! I am shy to talk about this to anyone...I really like him alot..what should I do..he barley knows me..or remembers me..he stayed at my house in foster care for a weekend but he was always gone out..with friends I guess and
2006-09-01 12:50:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we never really talked b4 but i love him so much...what should I do because the msn i talk on is someone else's..a fake person but im the one that really is now inlove with him..
2006-09-01 12:51:52 · update #1
I feel so dumb so help please!!
2006-09-01 12:52:10 · update #2
you dont deserve that
2006-09-01 12:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by lady in da streetz!! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but he sounds like a complete loser with no job and no life prospects. He doesn't even have a hs diploma?! That is a bad sign. In 5 years he will have nothing interesting in his life except an alcohol problem. I'm sure he's cute, but looks aren't everything. Besides that, the guys who are cute at that age are generally NOT the attractive guys a few years down the road, especially if they party hard. Keep looking and you'll find a guy who is cute AND worthwhile.
2006-09-01 20:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by M L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you are 16 and are probably going to throw this one out the window. I basically dropped out of college to party. I thought that I would take one term off. Well, I never went back. Maybe you should stay away from the partying if you have a addictive personality. Secondly, there is nothing wrong with sex, just be safe. Always use a condom. Just remember condoms do not protect against everything. Look that up. If you think this guy is hot, than maybe you should just use him. He doesn't sound like the type of guy to have serious relationship with. Good luck. I am sure some people do not like this advice. oh well. This is reality. Be safe always.
2006-09-01 19:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay honey you really need to get a hold of yourself!! Sorry, not trying to be mean, but I have a sis your age and if she told me all this that is exactly what I would tell her!! I know that at your age you have all these feelings and there is nothing wrong with that. It's not even so much that he is older than you. But he parties all the time and is a high school drop out!!! Is that really what you want to bring hm to your parents...would that really make you proud for him to be your boyfriend or have any sort of romantic involvement??? If your answer is yes, then I say go for it. But I truly hope that it's not! Your 16...you need to have crushes, go on dates and date guys that are right for you. Not be in love with an 18 LOSER who rides dirt bikes! Hey it's fun to hang out...I just would hate to see you get hurt. Believe me...I had my fair share of loser crushes...being kinda rebelous in all, but I look back know and realize how stupid is was being. Good Luck!!
2006-09-01 19:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not let youthful deception of partying and craziness lead you into believing that he is a great guy. Would you really want to be with a guy who is 'bad' a man who may treat you as a sexual object rather then a person made in the image and likeness of God. You are so loved by Jesus! How he loves you his beautiful daughter. He wants you to be loved and treated with respect. You can never make a guy good or tame it. In life it rarely works that way and could lead to an unnecessary path of suffering.
Do not be such a rush to enter a sexual relationship just because it would appear every one is doing it! True love and fulfilment chessy as it sounds is found in God. If you don't believe me ask Jesus to show you how much he loves you and mean it from the bottom of your heart. You may be surprised when showers his graces of love and join upon you for your faithfullness to him.
Totus tuus Maria
2006-09-01 20:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by knightofchristandmary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling wanting this will turn out to be more pleasing than having this...a high school dropout is not a prize in anyway whatsoever, but for the stage you're in right now, there's no way anyone will be able to talk you out of it. Just be careful and protect yourself at all times. Not every important lesson you learn in life will be in a classroom.
2006-09-01 20:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only advice I know to give to an immature girl 'in love' with a loser she doesn't even know is:
Stay away from him!
LOL
If you play with fire you'll get burned.
I'm not sayin it to be mean, and God knows it aint for the 'Best Answer'.
If you don't agree, then I suggest lookin at the posts about pregger girls, abortions and all that, cuz you'll be headin there next. LOL.. ( okay maybe that part was a little mean )
2006-09-01 19:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by moment_in_passing 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
aww. I guess the only thing you can do is make a move or things will be like they are now forever. I'm no good at dating advice but you could talk to him on your real MSN,like ask him about something just try to be friendly and see how things go from there. Just don't go telling him your fanasies lol
2006-09-01 20:00:55 · answer #8 · answered by lalah 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you wanna get involved with him? First of all, he partys and he's a drop out? What is he going to do with his life if he hasn't even graduated high school? It sounds like you are infatuated with him and infatuation will pass. Move on and find a nice guy who is more your age.
2006-09-01 19:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Like you say, "You're Desperate"
Don't throw yourself at any guy. Especially, the ones that drink and party. On top of that you barely know him. You're not in love, your eyes are.
Picture him taking you out, putting something in your drink. You pass out, and wake up regreting what you did (if you remember).
Find the one that your heart falls in love with, not your eyes.
2006-09-01 20:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by artmastercf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are still very young, so explore your options instead of focusing on this one guy. Second, he appears to not value the importance of education, and lets face it, do you want his lack of direction to be your guiding light? Come on, before you know it, you will be under his influence, drinking excessively and heading no where. Move on boo!
2006-09-01 19:57:36 · answer #11 · answered by whattodo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋