Should I tell a girl how much money I make, I do not went to find Miss Gold digger.?

Question

But if she hot and has a lot of guys going after her, should money be use as an advantage?

Answer 1

No. Then you will never be sure if she is with you for your money or you. Plus there will always be someone else with more money. Unless you are in a LTR then why would you disclose how much you make?

Answer 2

First of all, they're almost all gold diggers. Some are more subtle than others. I wouldn't suggest flat-out telling them how much you make at first because it might turn off the woman, not because she isn't a gold digger, but because you acknowledged her dirty secret. It's hard to con somebody out of money when they know what you're up to. She'll also probably think you're trying to buy her if she's not a pure gold digger.

They can probably figure it out on their own unless you've got it all holed up in the bank and are still living in the trailer park. After a while, let them "accidentally" find a pay stub or something. After they figure out you have money, most of them will inevitably spend some amount of time trying to act like they're not interested in your money. The best thing you can do is let them know you have money, have fun with them, and spend very little of your money on them. You will weed out the extreme gold diggers very fast by acting somewhat stingy. To them if a man has extra money he's not spending on them, it's a major insult that they just can't get over. The good women will stick around.

On the other hand, the good women that are equally attractive are harder to find. So if you can afford it, it might not hurt to pay the premium for a short term fling with a gold digger. Drive down the streets with AC/DC's "Love me for the Money" playing and have a good time. Be careful not to give them the opportunity to get knocked up though.

Answer 3

Hi,

First, you should NEVER tell your date how much money you make until you get serious about it. Why does it matter?

Second, I don't believe it is an advantage to have a lot of money. I grew up from a working class background, and I knew a girl was interested in ME when we went out. Now that I graduated from Harvard, and have a high paying job, I am bombarded with gold diggers.

In closing, if you telling a girl how much you will make gives you an advantage, he is probably a gold digger to begin with.

Cheers,

Leo

Answer 4

NO money should not be used as in advantage at all!! i have had SOOO many expierences about money not being able to buy happiness. The girl needs to like you for you. When you find the girl who does love u for u, she will be pleasently suprised about the money---but DONT show her the money first. You will TURN HER INTO a gold digger. Trust me, be your sweet, hot, smart self im sure you are and you will get a girl in 5 seconds without the money! I mean im dating a half homeless guy who is 17 (i am to) and i think im really in love with him. Good luck!!

Answer 5

A fellow Engineer in Houston made his money in real estate. Engineering was mostly a hobby. He met a stunning woman. Went out and bought a used VW bug. Took her to fast food joints, counting his money carefully. They dated for almost two years. Finally he proposed. She accepted and a party was planned at a "friend of his mansion". He picked her up in his "Friend's" Mercedes. We were all at the pool cabana when they came in. She still didn't know the truth. She got the message when the maid asked him for the wine cellar key. Talk about an uproar. There marriage was a social event of the year and all's well. He had to know the truth before he committed. This was before the pre-nup craze. None was needed. Take hie advise. If money gets her, you don't want her.
Vaya con DIOS

Answer 6

That is like throwing bait. The only reason you would tell is to have advantage over others that are interested. You need to really think about this. Because, relationships can become love and you want someone to love you for you. Money comes and goes buy love endureth forever. And even on level as a friend you want to keep people around that are genuine and care about you.

Answer 7

Why are you even trying to be ethical when you know and I know you just want her for her hot body?
So you tell her, it'll make your work a lot easier won't it?
So she falls for you 'cos of your money, you get her hot body, everybody's happy. Of course, if you go on to marry such a girl, you only have yourself to blame...
You can take care of yourself and your money, right? Just because a girl's a gold digger doesn't mean you're gonna let her dig your gold, right?
C'mon man.

Answer 8

That is the worst thing you could do, that is no ones business but your own. If you have to use money as an advantage, then you are open for a whole new ball game. Just be yourself, be confident, and things will work out for you.

Answer 9

if you want a relationship based on her valuing your financial wealth as a bonus to her.. sure. Just remember.. you'll never know if that's why she's with you. AND trust me, money alone will not ensure that she stays with you forever. And as far as the 'hot' thing goes, even hot women age. Good luck with what you seek
*that just sounded like a fortune cookie

Answer 10

Never ever ever ever tell a girl how much money you make. BIG MISTAKE!! You will attract THAT kind of girl. But if you want a high maintenance bimbo why not. I've got the man of my dreams, so no skin off my nose what you do.