I am so afraid my boyfriend is nonwhite. My mother said today he was not white. He is tan skinned black curly hair thick eyebrows hairy but hes nice. I am so scared. I mean I dont know whether to hate him or to continue loving him but I just cant make myself hate him. Should I just say youre a mud and I want to leave you?
2006-09-01 12:04:13 · 77 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
It is good that you have respect for yourself, your family, your future children, and your genes. No you shouldn't hate him but you should definately break off contact with him and learn to tell the difference between White and non-White before you date someone else.
2006-09-01 14:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by sdrowneetruof 1 · 2⤊ 6⤋
Ok child You need help. I feel sorry for your boyfriend having such a racist gf. If you truly loved him this would not be a hard decision, Hell I wish I would not have had a racist mother because I was very much in love with a black man. I am a white girl and I had so many people telling me it was wrong and against God and all this crap but deep down I didn't care because I honestly and wholeheartedly Loved him. I still do. But I lost touch and its too late. I cant find him. Dint make the same mistake I did because of your parent, If you did love the man didnt listen to others about what you should do. Based on the" mud" comment I don't think you love this man. You need to grow up and stop being so closed minded and stop with the racial comments. I hope that sweet man finds a good woman who wont be the way your being. May God have mercy on your soul.
2006-09-01 12:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by meanlilbitch23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a little shallow if you ask me.
I know that sometimes I sound a little racist because I have a problem with illegal aliens, but that has nothing to do with a persons nationality or ethnicity.
It would be better for him if you to cut all ties because you even writing this and asking us as a question is shameful.
If you or your family are going to judge people then maybe you should stick to somebody who is like transparent. White people tan, white people have black hair that is curly, and white people have thick eyebrows.
You must be from a family of idiots who produce idiot children.
"Stupid questions get stupid answers."
2006-09-01 12:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by lc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first I would just ask you to think of all the things that attracted you to your boyfriend in the first place and reflect on the deeply personal and meaningful things that made him your ideal. After this, then ask yourself does it matter to you if he has curly hair or that he has tan skin or thick eyebrows. I think you'll have answered your own question.
2006-09-01 12:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy these ppl r mean
but y do/should u hate him u should of found that out b4 u went wit him so like what has he done 2 u??
that part i don't get
y not love him anyway
if he didn't hurt u physically
so wats wrong wit that ??
is he a nice boyfriend??
then if all answers r good then u have nothin 2 worry bout
there only ppl like u and i just there skin is differ nothin else
2006-09-01 12:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by kidrock_rules68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should definitely leave him for someone better to have him. You deserve your own kind...(and I don't mean race) This is year 2006! If you dont want to date a nonwhite the that is your choice. But you need to respect our diverse society.
2006-09-01 12:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by wannakno 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just because your mother is a racist piece of trash doesn't mean you have to be..There is absolutely no reason to hate him just because he may not be white. Grow up little girl.
P.S. He deserves to find a smarter, open-minded girl anyway, so go ahead and let him go. Go ahead and tell him it's because he's not white. I'm sure people at your school will have a field day with you.
2006-09-01 12:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lucy_Fir 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all i think of that all human beings may be able to make certain without you pointing it out to us that your white boyfriend's dad and mom may be white. 2d what do you mean that they are often rednecks? Does this mean that often while your white boyfriends white dad and mom are out on the city they arrive to a selection whether or no longer they are going to be rednecks for the day? Hmmm, nonetheless attempting to parent that one out. 0.33, why is it that blacks look to continuously assume that whites are racist. i think of the reality which you have a white boyfriend with white dad and mom would desire to get rid of the myth that all and sundry whites are racist. you're making too many assumptions.
2016-12-11 19:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
" He is tan skinned black curly hair thick eyebrows hairy but hes nice."
did he need a tail and crave watermelon for you to finally realize he is a mud?
2006-09-01 12:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by MR. duckduckduckduckgoose 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You didn't know that he wasn't White when you got with him?
It obviously is a problem to you that he isn't White or you wouldn't be torn between keeping or losing him.
Try to be a bit more tactful in letting him down, be a lady, try using something other than "mud".
2006-09-01 12:08:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, calling someone you love a derogatory racial slur is not a good idea. Apparently, if you are contemplating breaking up over his race, you don't love him enough. I would break it off with him , but why tell him you are doing so because of his race? I think you can come up with a better excuse for breaking up that will not hurt his feeling as much.
2006-09-03 15:45:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋