My boyfriend of 2 years acts like he doesn't even care about me anymore or even love me anymore. I feel that I make him bored in this relationship. He spends all his time online playing poker and with this one friend (thats a male) all the time.. I mean his friend is at his house 3-4 days out of the week.. my bf is at my house 1 night out of the week. He tells me the reason why he doesn't stay here much anymore is because I Bi*ch too much.. I have told him if he would spend a little more time with me then I wouldn't have to Bi*ch. I have asked him if he is bored with me and he always tells me no.. idk what to do anymore.. any thoughts.
2006-09-01 12:02:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Try to fix things if you care for him and love him, but walk away if you don't.
2006-09-01 12:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by celia3018 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is not ready for a "real relationship"! When being with his friend is more important then being with you!
Break-up with him!
God has someone better out there for you.
Pray and ask Him to bring him to you. TAKE YOUR TIME AND WAIT!!!!
Remember not to jump into another relationship before you get to know the guy!
Make sure the guy treats you special and with respect!
Now! make sure that you were not too "pushy" as he said!
I dated a guy for "FIVE" years, we were engaged to be married. But his friends were "too" important to him. One day I finally had enough of that and broke it off, I knew what would await me if I did marry him! He wanted me back; he sent me flowers, asked me out more then he did when we were dating. He treated me better after I dumped him. I saw him more then I did when we were engaged.
I did not take him back. " I" Did as "I" advised you to do!
Married now for 16 years to a great man. Not perfect mind you!
Relationships take hard work.
Some thing to remember!
No one is perfect.
A relationship is two different people;
who see things differently,
Respecting each other,
Are conciderate of the other
giving and taken, who come together.
Good Luck
2006-09-01 12:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by SAM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him, if some one thinks u whine alot and preffers a friend than you hes is not a good bf, find some one that makes you feel like your the only one and that u r better than n e one he has ever seen. hes not worth it and when he loses you he will realize what he has lost and will wan't it back more than ever "you don't know what you have until it is lost" at this point you can A. get back with him or my favorite choice B. say no that you gave him a chance, and that if he didn't want it to bad! you moved on and hes just a little hazy pic. in your memory, it will have him feel destroyed.
2006-09-01 12:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Prada Marfa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arrgh...im in the same situation...one thing that i can think to do hat is working for us is just get out...dont stay home all the time
do stuff together to have fun and have less b*tching between you too. it doesnt mean he doesnt love you...ask him if theres anything wrong, maybe he's feeling certain insecurities and if he says all is ok, than just have fun. go out...even if just for a walk around the park...just be like kids...giggle and act stupid together. staying home on the couch will only drain any spark in your relationship, so play a board game, go rollerblading, go lie down in a park and watch the stars at night...just have fun! if he doesnt put the effort or really doesnt feel like it, than you tried...and you have to find someone who can make u happy.
2006-09-01 12:08:44 · answer #4 · answered by mtlfearie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's an idiot, and sounds like he has a serious gambling problem, and uses you for s e x. don't let him treat you like this, get rid now! you can find soooo much better.
In my experiance men do this to lower your self esteem so they can treat you as s h i t as they want and you'll put up with it cause your self esteem is so low you don't know you can get better then this moron. AND YOU SOOOOO CAN!!! and it really won't be that hard. even a guy sitting in front of the tv drinking beer is a better catch then this sob.
2006-09-01 12:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jen, you know what to do. You don't want to face it. Ask yourself this question: do you want to spend the rest of your life in a relationship that makes you feel this unhappy? You deserve much better. Don't be afraid to be alone for sometime. It is better to be alone that in bad company.
2006-09-01 12:08:28 · answer #6 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You picked a d*ck for a boyfriend. That was your mistake.
For another approach, have you considered learning how to play poker?
2006-09-01 12:08:02 · answer #7 · answered by ecmfw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Don't waste any more time with him. Find another boyfriend who is attentive. Imagine if you married him. You would be lonely all the time.
2006-09-01 12:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if he thinks ur a bi*ch then all u have to do is break up wit him! i mean tha is disrespect
2006-09-01 12:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by i miss him! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's gay..or maybe one of those nights he is in ur houe give him the best sex he could remember and if he still acts the same way ..girl it is time for u to move on..lol
2006-09-01 12:06:28 · answer #10 · answered by LaDy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋