I'm a male that thinks I am bi becuase i am sexual attracted to men and women but only sexually attracted to women 5% and men 95% of the time. I may be gay, but I do not like people that acts fiminine like women and it ticks me off when people throw me in that category because I am sexually attracted to guys. I dont believe in all that fimenin things most gay people do and the way they act. I do not talk with a lisp eighter. I am more of a straight guy. I got into a fight with these other guys for calling me a punk and I know i am not a person that is weak and coward down like a female. Could you please tell what am I because i am confused of myself . If I get with a women that i am sexually attracted to, I probably would forget about having sex with a cute male. Could you tell me what to say to strait guys that I find sexually attracted thank you all so much
2006-09-01 11:48:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Try not to think of it as you needing a label, If you are able to be attracted to male and females you are Bi but it does sound like you are almost Gay but that's ok
2006-09-01 13:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by Super 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're not gay or bisexual you're a wuss!! and a sexist pig
please don't try to squeeze yourself in the homosexual category, we don't want you!!
Shame is all yours. You have insulted every person who could and would have accepted you as an individual.
You can't be "more of a straight guy" if you have sex with men. Just because you THINK you are more macho or masculine than some of the men you see in the media doesn't make you more of a man and certainly doesn't make you straight. Believe me if someone assumes you are gay.. you aint that macho.
You are not confused you are weak and ashamed of what you feel and lack a personality that could accept others for who they are.
There you've just been ***** slapped by a weak cowardly woman and don't get all up-to-airs I am not a bulldyke or bulldagger or whatever other insulting name you can think of, I'm not even a butch
2006-09-01 23:14:31 · answer #2 · answered by chocolate sundae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No woman is ever going to keep you from being attracted to men. You are probably bisexual with strong gay leanings.
You need to get some education about the stereotyping you are doing. Most gay guys are extremely masculine in appearance and demeanor. Bears for instance, and the leather guys, are just the epitome of masculinity.
And what kind of women do you know that are weak and cowards? Find out what real men are, (and they are not heterosexual by default), and emulate them. Stop hanging around women who play at being less than they are. Women are about as defenseless as pit bulls.
2006-09-01 20:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get over it,, jack, cause you are. - or if you want to think you might be a little bi, fine. Don't get offended because people call you something you are. How ridiculous does that sound.
Many gay men don't appear feminine or act like queens. Stop using the stereotype to hate gay people. If it's ok for you to dislike feminine men, then why isn't it ok for straight people to dislike them too? And beat them up?
Gay men come in all shapes and sizes and colors.
2006-09-05 03:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dee,
Okay. So lets see here. You are a dude. A guy, who prefers to go by the name 'dee' on this site. You don't like to be thought of as gay, but you like guys as sexual partners leaps and bounds over women. You don't like men who act effeminate. You don't think that you act effeminate, and don't like feminine stuff.
You consider women to be less than you. You have discovered that you can take care of yourself in a fight. You haven't had uch time with being with a woman sexually. You can't figure out what you are, and you think that males are very attractive, but notice that some women are attractive to you also.
One thing I can tell you is that straight males are not going to give you a chance. In fact, they will most likely shun you.
Give me your age and where you grew up and I'll tell you more about yourself. Click on my name and you can get some answers.
Peace to you.
2006-09-01 19:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie only u can decide what u are. Sound like u are more gay than bi. Are u afraid to admit that cuz u are afraid the ignorant treatment from others? Don't listen to the stupid things other people say! Just be the better person and ignore them, what they have to say doesn't matter. Just always be proud of who u are. And if u are gay there is nothing wrong with that.
:)
2006-09-01 19:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by It'sMe23 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me that you are self-identifying as bisexual right now. Nothing wrong with that whatsoever. The intensity of attraction you now feel towards each sex may change as you age though. For right now, stick to your guns and continue to identify with those men you feel most confortable grouped with. Only YOU can determine if you are straight, bi, or gay, not your friends or any other people.
2006-09-02 05:19:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ticked when they think you are gay and be ready to fight dude because you are probably g0y.
G0y are men in to men but not gay. We don't do anal we don't do gender bending we like our men to have a pair, and know how to use them. We are tough, tender and trustworthy. We are the kosher catches of the homosexual community. We follow biblical principals to guide our behavior. Get enlightened check out.http://g0ys.org
2006-09-01 22:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're bi.. just leaning more on the gay side.. you need to get that through to people.I'm bi.I like women 98% of the time and men 2% of the time but I'm sitll bisexual.don't hit on straight guys. Sometimes if they're homophobic they'll end up beating you up.Safer to only hit on guys you know for a fact that they like guys.I don't know you but I don't want to see you get hurt.
2006-09-01 19:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by no name 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh get a life....do you think all gay men have lisp and act like women? You need to get out more....and if a man is str8 he is not going to be attracted to you. That is why he is str8.....
2006-09-02 03:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋