what happens when this always happens and you dont know what to do next or what it means???

Question

everytime my boyfriend thinks or sees anything having to do with the children i had he gets in a mood....and right now is the exact mood that he is in....he told me that if i left the apartment that we live in he wouldnt be here when i got back....he said he just wanted to be alone in our room.....i just was in there and i leaned up against him and i played with his hair since i am just getting tired of all the arguing over this i told him that he didnt deserve this and that he should just go...and he moved further away from me....so then i told him am i bothering you and he said yes in a tired voice and i told him im sorry so then i told him that he should just leave already and he said are you kicking me out and i said no i just want you to go be happy he said i just need some time what i am scared of is that this time he is taking right now will end up in an arguement and that if we do go out like we always do that it will be a ugly night and he will say stuff to make me feel ugly

they arent mine and his and i dont have them anymore my mom does

Answer 1

I just love these complicated ridiculously-long, meandering, single-sentence questions that no one can possibly answer! How the hell can we offer any kind of reasonably good response when we have no idea about the situation?

Thank god there is a character limit, or we have to read even more of this pathetic tale.

Answer 2

boyfriend? are they both of your kids? if they are.....why do you have kids when you are not in a committed marriage. you are hurting yourself, your kids, your health.....but that's your boat.

tell him to get the f**k out. there are guys you will meet that will fall in love with you and your kids. a man not a boy. he is out there. this is your life. make choices wisely.

Answer 3

Yeah, what the doc said.