In the bedroom I prefer to be submissive, whereas outside I enjoy being in control and taking the lead on things. Do the different preferences suggest that one is more true to my personality than the other? I enjoy the way things are and would like to enjoy the differing roles without any guilt or insecurities.
2006-09-01 11:28:12 · 11 answers · asked by redcarpetden 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No, some of the butchest most masculine men with the most powerful jobs are submissive in the bedroom, one is not related to the other
2006-09-01 11:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by n2mustaches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way. It's not bad at all! It's completely natural. Even the most dominant and outgoing people in the world like to know they can let their guard down once in a while. Being the leader all the time can become very stressful. Good luck!
2006-09-02 02:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mama23Girls 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's perfectly normal. Heck, there's a lot of big business types that are control freaks in the office and such, but after hours like to pay to be submissive to a professional dominatrix. Just enjoy it and don't worry.
2006-09-02 09:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, of course not! Everyone has their preferred role in different situations, and they're rarely consistant. Being socially dominant and sexually submissive is perfectly perfect.
2006-09-01 18:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really common. I am the same thing. I am quite dominant in my life and with my boyfriend and friends, but in bed I am quite submissive. What you do in the bedroom has nothing to do with your social life.
2006-09-01 20:26:09 · answer #5 · answered by Nostromo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MMM. That question really made me think However, I do not think that one has anything to do with the other. And the other question that comes through my mind is:"Why did you post that under gay,lesbian,bisexual?" Does that mean you consider your self to belong to the Gay population? Well, I think what we like has nothing to do with the roles. I think if we just trying to be our selves rather than to impress our environment, I think we are probably better off. Does this clearify your question?
2006-09-01 18:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by angelikabertrand64 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its different when u alone with that special some one than it is when u are out in public I'm very aggressive in bed but on the outside I'm so fem and sensitive
2006-09-01 18:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by lost in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dismiss guilt. How you feel sexually is not related with your professional feelings and actions. Besides, you have a chance to give your lover something he/she would have never expected. That's a turn-on!
2006-09-01 18:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by Uros I 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do in the besroom is your business and has nothing to do with how you are in the outside world
2006-09-01 19:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by Finally home 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is VERY common!
2006-09-01 18:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by helixburger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋