how do i get my partner into anal sex any tips?

Answer 1

Patience...basically

Answer 2

Very slowly. Make sure you have plenty of lube nearby. You can never have too much. Never, never, never just spring it on her or do it without warning. Always, talk about it first. Mention it in a non-sexual setting, and talk about it seriously. Tell her you will go super slow and stop if she doesn't like it, or it begins to hurt. Always, always, always STOP if she says it hurts!! My first time, I didn't tell him it hurt, and let him keep going, the next day I couldn't even sit, it hurt so much. But here were our two MAJOR mistakes: we didn't go slow and we didn't use lube. Very bad. If, after all of that, she doesn't like it or still won't let you try, you're out of luck. Also, NEVER go from anal to vaginal without cleaning or using a condom for the anal. You can set up serious infections.

Answer 3

You might not be able to, but you can try by getting how-to guides like books or dvd's and explain that you want to do it in a way that doesn't hurt them.

You didn't mention if your partner has done this before and if they did, and it wasn't pleasant, they may think it is always like that. Then too, some people just don't like it period.

You can also offer a trade. If you're a guy and your partner is a gal, I would offer something really nice but non-sexual. This has to be something that shows just how much it means to you.

Answer 4

If you're a guy and she's a girl, don't keep drawing attention to it, if she's embarassed this will make her worse and more defiant. Everytime you go down on her, pay more and more attention to that area, I aint sayin stick you're tongue in there but you know what I mean. This will make her realise you ain scared of her a***hole, n will get her used to the area bein touched. Wait till one time when she's really really horny n tease your **** round both holes, make sure shes wet n edge it in a TINY bit. Do this on a couple of occaisions n then just ease it all in. Through the whole process she'll have grown more comfortable with the whole thing and feel more ready to let you in. No pun intended. If she aint interested at all you'll pick up on this, though do not try to do it all at once. I was the same with my boyfriend, but I knew he wanted it n kept payin attention to that bit so eventually I felt okay enuff to let him.xx

Answer 5

Spark her curiosity. Get some anal porn, some lube, some condoms and a small dildo, and explore!

Answer 6

lmao ok the only think i could think of when i read this question was a song by daivd allen coe
"this will only hurt for a lil while
i'll only put the head of it in
i promise that i never try to *** in your mouuuuttthhh!!"
look up david allen coe songs its hilarous

Answer 7

Purchase a strap on for your partner and let her go at you for a while. Once she sees how much fun you're having, she'll want to do it too.

Answer 8

go very slow use lube maybe start with things SMALLER then your package get her use to the feeling. I hate anal because my hubbys stuff is to fat, i use to like it with my ex hubby he was smaller

Answer 9

omggggggggggggggggggggggggg you all are killing me tonight , you just too funny ,,, I'm lovin the questions and the answers ,,,,I'm thinkin I need a life already lol, welllllllll I'll jus blame it on hubby for leaving me alone for the week-end lollllllllllllllll too funny guys keep it up :)

Answer 10

Let her do it to you first, that should shut you up asking for the rest of your life!