I know in my heart that I am still in love with my ex...we have a baby together and at first after our split I thought she was the only thing keeping my heart tyed to him...but I have found that it is not only our love for our daughter that ties us together, but our undying friendship (even through all we have been together), our bond, and the fact that we both still admit to the feelings we have for one another. Yt, we split up because he cheated on me...twice. We were not going too wll anyhow, just not getting along, but I know I have grown ince our relationship...I just don't know how much he has. He also has another baby on the way right now and I would hate to take him from the girl h is with now. Okay, I know I blabbered on now for a while, but I don't exactly know how to put the feelings I have into words; except that I have an undying love for this man; and I can't explain the situation too well because we have so much history....what would you do?
2006-09-01 10:55:52 · 13 answers · asked by Memigen 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry for any misspellings..I'm not used to this keyboard yet...
2006-09-01 10:56:31 · update #1
We have been apart for close to a year now...I have gotten out...I have experienced and do experience life..yet I still love him. Yet, I wonder how ood he would be for me. He says he wants to get back together all the time and I tell him no....I don't know what I want or what I expect from people answering this really.
2006-09-01 11:26:00 · update #2
I don't know how old you are, you sound young. I don't doubt that he still loves you....but don't you deserve someone who ONLY loves YOU? He sounds like he's trying to keep ALL his options open. All I can say is love yourself and love your daughter.
2006-09-01 11:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If that was me and I did everything me and my partner has done to resolve things and she is with another man and going to have a baby then it's time for me to go on with my life and find things to do to keep me from going stir crazy Yes i loved her and yes we have a history together thats why it's call a history a thing of the past it's time to move on and if my woman was with another guy I wouldn't be able to take her away that dession is up to her if she wanted me back not mine I could whine about wanning but whats that going to get me the same place I'm at now (nowhere)
It's time to let the past go and Move on !!! Good Luck the woman have a saying when they lost their man there's plenty of fish in the sea Exceptance is the answer to all my problems
2006-09-01 18:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by Torch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may be very good friends with this guy and you can love someone with out them loving you the same way. Any guy who would cheat on you at all, when you have a child, is not worth the time to talk to. And it sounds like he just doesn't like to committ to anything at all, anyway. If he's expecting another baby and you are getting "close" again, I'd toss him out on his ear. He just wants what he can't have and you deserve to have someone 100% of the time, not 30 or 40 or 25. Please wise up. I've been with 2 guys just like this and they were friends but not good guys to be with. They were terrible significant others and only wanted to be around when it was inappropriate. Good luck to you and your baby girl!
2006-09-01 18:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by littleredridinghood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard but I think you have to put it out of your mind. I think you need to make some friends, get busy in pursuing some things that interest you, (developing yourself) and in time look for somebody else. Just put you energies elsewhere.
I broke up with somebody, not really by choice but because I was burnt out. And years later I bumped into her, and had all those same feelings. But, as hard as it may be, I think you need to move on. There really ARE other people out there. Some are wonderful, and you might be missing out on the one who you'd really be happy with, because you're dwelling on your ex.
Life moves on with or without us. His having another baby is a pretty clear sign, he has moved on. Time for you to as well ;)
2006-09-01 18:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by moment_in_passing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is ways of fixing things like this, you talk them out.. show him the baby... let him fall in love with him and with you again.. let him know what he's missing and what he can have. Show him the Woman that you are.... start spending time with him.. Im sure he'll love you and start trusting you again.. if he doesn't want to then he's not worth it.. let him have it all or nothing at all... here is my e-mail for any other questions.. pinkerbell_1392@yahoo.com
2006-09-02 21:25:08 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ S k I p [a] B e a t ! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear...i can understand ur feeling....u r a Nice hearted n adorable person.....i felt from ur Question But truth is that He Cheated With U twice......if u 2 again get together...he ll again Cheat u n It ll Hurt u More As compared 2 Pain u r feeling now....Belive me.....Take care
2006-09-01 18:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a different kind of love you both have now. It cannot ever be innocent the way it was. don't try to think it could be the same, now you must adapt to the new relationship.
2006-09-01 17:58:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T GO THERE WITH HIM IN ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE ELSE. IF THIS IS MEANT TO BE IT WILL COME AROUND. SOUNDS LIKE YOU SHOULD SEE EACH OTHER WHEN HE COMES TO SEE THE BABY. DOES HE GIVE YOU MONEY FOR THE BABY? THESE ARE ALL THINGS TO THINK ABOUT AND DO LEGALLY FOR YOUR CHILD.
2006-09-01 18:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a simple as this- once you fall in love with him then you can never hate him.
2006-09-01 18:00:38 · answer #9 · answered by Peace 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl you're strong after knowing he's having a baby with someone else and you're still there wanting him wow you're good.
2006-09-01 17:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by MariLin♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋