ok.here's my question.i recently joined a new college & there's this guy.he's absolutely my type:smart,friendly & cute,but he has been dating this girl for abt 10 months now(who i know as well.she's a wonderful person too) & i seem to have a thing for this guy. i can see that he's devoted to his gf.but sometimes during class when his gf is not around,i catch him staring & smiling ,& whenever he laughs,he looks towrds me.apart from that,he gives me his full attention while he's talking with me.the reason i like him is that we have a lot in common.he's interested in forensic psychology just like me,is very outgoing & social & is very smart too.
so,my question is,is he just being nice (to me,the new kid)?or does he have a slight thing for me?i really don't want to be a relationship breaker though because his gf is really nice to me too.
thanks for taking the time to read this & thank you for all the answers too!
2006-09-01 10:30:31 · 8 answers · asked by hu_ru_anyway 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He genuinely enjoys your personality. Dont assume that because you feel something for him that he feels the same way. Learn to read body language that should help you understand the message he is giving you. Surely you must cover something to do with body language in the field of Forensic Psychology. If not do some research into it to help you. Keep your emotions to one side until you figure out what he is saying. Men tend to uncomplicated with feelings and are not into beating about the bush. I bet when you hear him laugh you look at him before he looks at you. How else would you know he is looks towards you? And he knows he will find you looking at him. At a guess he finds your interllect refreshing and just enjoys your company nothing more.
2006-09-05 01:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by wandera1970 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is one of those special men that can focus totally on a person and make them feel like they are the only one in the room. This doesn't mean that he has a thing for you. He may or may not, but since he has a girl it is a moot point. Just be a friend, not a potential girlfriend. If he and his girl break up sometime in the future, that is the time to worry about it, not now.And if he is as good a guy as you indicate he won't make a move on you while she is in the pic. If he does run the other way...FAST.
2006-09-01 10:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by songbird092962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. You don't know him very well, is this how he acts when he's with a friend? Or is it more? As you know that he has a girlfriend, and you do like her too, just keep it at a friendship level, wait and see if he says anything. You might be misinterpreting friendliness. In the meantime, go out, have some fun, you may meet some other people too.
2006-09-01 10:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter whether he's just being nice or he wants something more. He's TAKEN!! There are so many "untaken" guys in a new college -- get involved with them instead. Good luck!
2006-09-01 10:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by CittyKat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 18:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go breaking anything..... If both of them are your friends dont hurt them..... just keep minding your own and maybe you just like him beacuse of how he treats his girlfriends but if his flirting with you what makes you think that if yoiu hook up he wont be flirting with anyone else...
2006-09-01 10:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be interested but do not spoil what he has with his nice girlfriend, you win some you lose some - sorry.
2006-09-01 19:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone until they break up. otherwise, if you did steal him, how could you ever trust that he wouldn't leave you??
2006-09-01 10:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by jimvalentinojr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋