2006-09-01 10:26:24 · 19 answers · asked by karen s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well you can go ... its maybe that they dont like you ..
2006-09-01 10:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by jack jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going to get his daughter at "HIS" inlaws? I take it he is married? Or maybe he is divorced and the "in-laws" still see the granddaughter. Either way, you would be out of place there anyway. You are after all, "the girlfriend", not wife. How long have you been with him? I reckon, your question is too vague. You need to tell more information, before we can give you answers.
2006-09-01 10:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really know how to make it hard on a guy. Keep it up and he'll be bye-bye. Are you thinking? These are his ex wife's parents, at least he is considering them and not rubbing his new relationship in their faces.
Also, have you met the daughter yet? Would that be the place to meet her? Let her have some time alone with her dad. He'll appreciate you more.
Be a little sensitive to him. He's trying to juggle his new life without ruining his attachment to his old life. Time to grow up.
Besides, why don't you take this time and learn English composition, spelling and grammar. Judging by what you wrote you can use some catching up.
2006-09-01 10:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? To be respectful of his in-laws' and his children's feelings.
He's a dad first, your boyfriend second as far I am concerned. The kids should always come first.
If you can't deal with that, you either need to grow up or find a man without responsibilities and attachments other than you.
2006-09-01 10:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To them you're a stranger and a rival to their daughter, so why bother to go? just stay home until he picks her and comes back.
2006-09-01 10:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's lying to them about only loving and trying to get back with their daughter.
2006-09-01 10:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by RUAQT? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To avoid alot of questions and complications.. give it some time.. he will let you know when its good timing.. Its also a courtesy to her ex's parents.. I really think that was thoughtful of him.. Be patient.
2006-09-01 10:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are his inlaws (you didnt say ex-inlaws) then he's married so why would you even THINK you could go with him????
2006-09-01 10:43:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sharon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How I can know - you must ask him in first place. Is not your daughter but he is with you.
2006-09-01 10:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you want to go because?
1. the child aint yours
2. they are not your in-laws
3. why you needs to go with him to get his own child, does he need some help getting her?
2006-09-01 10:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is embarrassed by his past? he still likes his ex?
he doesnt want u to meet his ex in laws? number of things
2006-09-01 10:29:34 · answer #11 · answered by sabrina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋