him: im just annoyed with ur stupidity
him: n all ur imperfections
him: get it through ur head ur not smart n u havent changed n u dont do anythign right u do everything wrong.
him: all ur wrongs n mistakes will dissapear once ur not stupid
That is the man I thought i loved...and he is killing me and stressing me out..idk what to do..how do you break up with sombody you love..but he just wont leave you alone and sucks you back in when you hear him talking ..Idc that im prego with his child..he makes me hate him..
2006-09-01 10:16:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
mmmmm . . . . . . do you have a sledgehammer?
2006-09-01 10:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Figure out if there is any validity in what he is saying, and maybe you can change or resolve the issues he has. It's all about working together. If he's just being an as* though, then screw him. He doesn't deserve you, and you would know in your heart he wouldn't make a kind and caring father for your soon to be born. Good luck!
2006-09-01 17:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by Angie T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of this guy. If he speaks to you this way, how is he going to talk to your child?? Cut yourself off from him completely. Don't talk to him if you see him in the street and don't take his phone calls. He deserves to hear about the progress of the pregnancy, but you can have a neutral party (like your parent) call him and keep him updated. Don't let him draw you back in with sweet talk, eventually he might stop calling you stupid and start hitting you.
2006-09-01 17:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by S. O. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he said "Sure I love you, honey - now take off your underwear".
You break up with someone by moving out of his house, refusing to speak with him on the telephone, returning his letters and seeing a family law attorney about child support.
You also decide if you want to raise his kid alone and wonder if the support payment will get there late, AGAIN, while he is off telling someone else "Sure I love you, honey . . .".
If you don't, put it up for adoption. It will tear your heart out but be better for the child.
2006-09-01 18:36:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's better to be alone than to have someone treating you with that sort of disrespect. he must think you have no one to talk to. he needs you or a friend or a male figure to set him straight. he might very well be feeling guilty about things he's done and trying to get you mad enough to break it off. if this is the first time he's done this it's his fault, if he's done this before' it's your fault. this will go to physical abuse. i am not sure if you were saying you are having a child with him. you now have to consider the baby, the law will make him provide for the child don't worry. keep some friends, your going to need them. this is not love, when someone allows the belittling of oneself than you have to want to improve your taste in those you want to be in love with, please consider the baby...
2006-09-01 17:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by lee f 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break it off with him and get to a counselor. No one deserves to be talked to that way. BTW the counselor is just to help you understand you are not all the things he says you are .... so you are better for your child and able to make better decisions once you decide to date again.
2006-09-01 17:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by jewell2578 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should say (if he tells you this again) then say im not perffect and if you just want someone perfect then leave because you should love me for me...
I have been through life experiences that are like this and it will just bring you down.... so if you have kids then it will bring stress on them too so i would just say if you dont love me for then you must not love me... good luck!! im sorry!!!!
2006-09-01 17:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by your_fave_brunette 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop him. Hes dirt. He has no right to say those things to you. Get a better guy. The baby deserves a better father too.
2006-09-01 17:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. You do not speak to someone you love that way. I would hate to see how he treats people he hates. Do not subject your child to living in a home this way. You should be strong for your child and show him or her to have respect for theirself and stand up to theirself. Do not allow people to treat you this way.
2006-09-01 17:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by #3ontheway! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just take him for the child support, move on and find somebody decent.
2006-09-01 17:33:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt loves you!!!he doesnt respect you!he doesnt treats you like a lady! he is just one butthole ook???YOU ARE TOO MUCH OF A LADY FOR HIM! HE DOESNT LOVES YOU! A PERSON THAT LOVES YOU DOESNT SAYS THAT!Imagine in a future, do you think he's gonna respect you when married????I DONT THINK SO! Girl...i hope you make a wise desicion..
2006-09-05 15:00:07 · answer #11 · answered by lacosteña 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋