I have got friends talks with whom are very connected. I have got good understanding of people and they like it. we feel connected when we talk and they really feel i understand them and they really like talking to me and sharing thoughts with me.
But the same people ignore me in the class or in the groups of our classmates because i'm not good academically and they don't wana be called my friends by others. I'm in a very good college and academics is really important and in that respect i'm a loser. Though they like me, they don't want to talk2me when other intelligent people are around. Can you explain it?
2006-09-01 09:56:54 · 11 answers · asked by ravi s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this is part of their insecurity of how other people think of them. They are definitely not leaders! If I were you I would just not associate with them and tell them your doing them a favor,or if they ask your advise on something tell your so called buddies to ask the people they are trying to impress to answer their questions. You don't need people like that in your life,their fake and they come with baggage that your too good for.Who are they to be ashamed of you?
2006-09-01 10:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by blondearies123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A friend will help you and not hurt or hinder your spirits. A true friend will except you for who you are. Do not ever feel that you are a loser.You are a smart and intelligent person.You should never let anyone lower your self esteem nor make you feel as if you are not intelligent. You should always hold your head up and tell yourself that you are somebody. People who try to bring you down are not your friends and they do not deserve a smart, intelligent person like you. If you made it to college, you are not a loser because most people in this world do not even want to go to college to better themselves. You should tell these so-called friends that if they cannot hang around you when they are around other people that they feel are intelligent people, than they should not hang around you at all.
2006-09-01 17:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Demetrius B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, u need to stop talkin with those people, if they tell u they r ur friends and then they ignore u in school then they r not ur friends. the next time they want to talk or something just tell them "no" or u could test them by sayin "how about we talk about during lunch tomorrow in school" and if they come to u in lunch then that is good but if they dont then u should not ever talk to them again. it is way obvious that they r jerks and r only using u for ur advise. or if they want to talk about something like that then u could charge them and make some money, a b**th gotta get paid!!!
2006-09-01 17:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have lost the sense of reality in the idea that you can actually call them friends judging by the way you are being treated when others join. You continue like that throughout your life, seeking approval of others of you to identify yourself will only lead to alot more lonely moments as you have already experienced .
2006-09-01 17:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by lopez76g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you consider yourself a loser, then you can become a self fulfilling prophesy. People are judge mental, fickle and easily swayed. Friends that really care about you will not desert you in social situations.
2006-09-01 17:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by david42 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok nice life story m8 im too lazy and white to read it but you're probably a loser or a hoe so i hope that answers your question if it doesn't then you can stfu and bend over ok
2006-09-01 17:00:03 · answer #6 · answered by kylito27 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, they are ars.eholes. If they act that way then they are not your friends, confront them about it and see what they say, they may not even realise they do it.
2006-09-01 16:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain it?
I can't even understand it.
What the hell are you talking about?
2006-09-01 16:58:54 · answer #8 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Jealousy and/or insecurity.
That's it in a nutshell.
2006-09-01 16:59:40 · answer #9 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
then they are not your friends....they are two faced.
2006-09-01 16:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋