I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and have become really good friends with his friends. Recently, my sister started dating my boyfriend's best friend (only a couple of dates). They are 9 years apart and at different places in their lives. She is still in college and he graduated years ago and is currently working full time. He owns his own house and she still lives with my parents. They also live about an hour away from each other and she doesnt drive.
I don't like the idea of her hanging around and going out with me and my friends. Is there anything that I can do to convince her it won't work or at least for me to feel better about the situation?
I've already tried talking to her, but since I'm her sister, she won't listen to me!
HELP!!
2006-09-01 09:55:37 · 7 answers · asked by Mandy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Do the things she does'nt like to do . Or dont tell her what you will be doing . As far as your sister dateing this guy , I would leave it alone unless shes' 18 and hes' 33 . That would be sick , shes not old enough to realize it . He would know better as an adult . If its only a few years , let her do it . Haing out with her friends and see if she likes it . Maybe this guy is good for her ! The most you can do is tell her the dirt about him , then tell her to watch for it . If its something bad , I would'nt want my sister to be arround this guy . If somethings wrong with the guy , by you telling her she will see it faster . If they were ment to happen they will in time be together , instead of you and your friends .
2006-09-01 10:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you want your own sister around you? Do you feel as if she will take the spot light away from you or something? Leave her alone cause it doesnt make any sense making a big deal out of some thing so dumb. Cause when you didnt have any of those friends, who was your friend, your sister.
2006-09-01 17:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her have her situation with her new boyfriend. If you don't like her hanging around with you and your friends, let her know. Tell her she can go out with her own friends. But when it comes to her boyfriend, it's none of your concern and she's going to do what she's going to do. Let her do her own thing and if it's wrong, then it'll be her mistake and if it works out, then that's her bliss.
2006-09-01 17:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by *♥T0mb0ygirlygurl♥* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smart girl- your sisters b/f is settled, has his life planned out and your sister is thinking this guy might be a lifemate.
Why are you trying to screw up her good thing? What is YOUR reason to piss on her happiness?
2006-09-01 17:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her be...at least you dont have to worry about her if she's around you...you sound more like you are jealous of her than anything else...give it a chance...if it dont work it's between her and her boyfriend...you shouldn't try to talk her out of anything unless it's bad for her
2006-09-01 17:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that you are being jealouse. y wouldnt you want your sister to be happy like you are. she could be trying to get with a drug head but atleast she is getting with someone that has brains and has a education that could take care of her in the future.
2006-09-01 17:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being selfish and petty. If it works out between them then so be it you have nothing to do with there relationship.
2006-09-01 17:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋