What do you do when you think your friend is mad at you or doesnt like you anymore and u cant ask her about it cuz she wont tell the truth?
2006-09-01 09:49:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What do I do if this girl who was supposedly my friend has like a problem with me and wont tell me the truth if i ask her about it? i mean we werent good friends from the get go but its just that if im not friends with her it will affect my friendships withmy other friends
2006-09-01 10:11:33 · update #1
oops i thought wen it said add details it would type over the other ones so i just kinda reworked my story so the second one is more of wat im lookin an answer to.
2006-09-01 10:12:36 · update #2
If your friend is truly your friend, she should tell you the truth. Some people are very obvious in being mad so that you will pick up on the hint: they throw temper tantrums and pout etc. I know when my first boyfriend and I started dating, my friend was just awful. She was furious. But only because she felt like things changed. 'Course I needed to let her know that was not the case. I was just really happy to be with this guy.... Maybe you should flat out ask her what's going on? Maybe she's having a crisis and feels like nobody cares. Hope this helps!
2006-09-01 09:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by littleredridinghood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking her with the utmost truthfullness and friendliness and all that you can muster. Say something along the lines of, "Say, we need to talk, blah blah blah." If that doesn't work, or if you don't want to do that, then just avoid her completely for several days and don't talk to her, and then see how she feels. Maybe she just needs a little alone time or she's just in a bad mood. Never assume too much.
2006-09-01 16:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by Display Name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you,I would live it alone u see, time is a healing factor,this is one of them, in time if she is realy your friend she will fess up about the whole thing,and ask u to for give her,if u are her friend u will and never bring it up again, Peal g
2006-09-01 16:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by pearl g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have 2 suggestions
if u can..get some other friends to ask her.
also...u can make new friends ...so what if the other kids dnt like u? its not like there the onli 1 `s @ the school!
2006-09-01 18:24:34 · answer #4 · answered by blahhh!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought school has already started again - can't wait for the Migration Of The Idiot Teenagers!
2006-09-01 16:51:16 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finally someone has the same problem as me!!! I have this one friend who wrecks my head...shes my best friend but then she gets mad for no reason and won't talk to me!!! Just let the phase past....!!!! Thats what I do...!!!
2006-09-01 16:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by kareno209 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull back from the relationship for a while and let her come to you.
Sooner or later you will be able to discuss the issue.
2006-09-01 16:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call them up ti check up on how they are feeling towards you. i personally ask my friends if they are pissed at me. there are sign to tell. if they are doing the following things
do they avoid you
do they ignore you
are they starting rumors
if they are then its best to talk things out.
2006-09-01 16:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by spiratic 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about she not a real friend if she acts like that
2006-09-01 16:52:56 · answer #9 · answered by CiCi Cuttie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her or him what i did wrong and try to make it better if i could? I would try to make her happy ?
2006-09-01 16:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by JESSIKA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋