(VENT) This is a statement that is often used, when one has some reservations, or is somewhat in doubt that the other party they`re associated with (Husband, Wife, Child, Sweetheart,other family member, best Friend) isn`t truly meeting all of the requirements needed to make the relationship what they feel it is suposed to be. so VENT what is lacking? Please complete,.... "If you really love me", You will,,,,,,,,,(What?)
2006-09-01 09:27:17 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Dear RdSoxFan, keep ur sox on, stick w/ur fans and let the big Guys and Dolls answer this one, evidentlly love is a fear factor for you , but if there`s any consolation you get 2pts. too bad you didn`t have the skill to try for the 10.
2006-09-01 09:40:31 · update #1
With some "thought" these answers are faaarr from being manipulative, Relationships can sometimes "splinter" when there is no honest communications about how the other party feels, or when one does not truly know what the other person expects of them, Honest commune can often times be the glue that helps to hold some relationships in check. intelligent folk would know that, and answer for that purpose, or ignore the question. rather than offer critical garb just to grab 2 pts.
2006-09-01 09:59:53 · update #2
do things to show me that you love me, don't just say that you do.
be there for me when times are rough.
let me be there for you when times are rough.
be my best friend and let me be yours.
be my best orgasm and let me be yours.
be faithful to me and let me be faithful to you.
trust me and let me trust you.
not hurt me and not let me hurt you.
be honest with me and let me be honest with you.
laugh with me and let me laugh with you.
argue with me and let me argue with you.
apologize after arguing when you are wrong and accept my apologies when i am wrong.
be sitting here with me on the porch swing when we are very old.
2006-09-01 09:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by miss advice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never say that.
It's an ultimatum. It's a needy, desperate statement meant to provoke a specific reaction from the other person through guilt. It's manipulative.
I would imagine that the other person would lose a lot of respect for me if I used that line.
I have had someone use that line on me, and I despise it.
The answer to that line is, "If YOU really loved me you wouldn't resort to childish guilt trips in order to manipulate me".
2006-09-01 16:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by niffer's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit cheating, come home after work, quit going to bars, quit hanging out with all those "quality" women, pay more attention to the kids, start spending more time with me, take out the trash, pick up your dirty socks, call your mom, take a shower everyday, go to work everyday, buy me that diamond ring i've been begging for, do everything i say!
2006-09-01 16:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try not it use that expression seriously, only when I'm joking around with my husband and he knows I'm not serious.
If I had to pick one thing to finish that statement,
"If you loved me, you will be honest and faithful. You won't lie to me or cheat on me."
2006-09-01 16:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to do the Peppermint twist?
2006-09-01 16:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Harris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show me like take me out make me feel like im the only person in the world
2006-09-01 16:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept me for who I truly am. With my flaws and with my good attributes. Let me have unconditional love.
2006-09-01 16:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by redhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love me, you'll take care of yourself so we can grow older together.
2006-09-01 16:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"always value my sense of Trust and my sense of People and respect that about me and show that to me each and every day, too".
2006-09-01 16:29:14 · answer #9 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of manipulating question is that ?
2006-09-01 16:30:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋