2006-09-01 09:24:36 · 31 answers · asked by tkajj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It is not as easy as, "there's a hole, put it in." No. There is a method to it. It has to be done carefully and correctly to feel good, otherwise it is a bad experience and it will hurt.
If she is dead against it, you are s#!t out of luck. (excuse the pun).
I would think the best way you could convince her is to educate her about it through informative reading and talking to people, especially other women who have had the experience correctly and benefitted from it. Most of
those who put down the idea have not done it correctly or at all.
You had better be well informed also. You aren't the one in danger of the pain. It's not as simple as you might think.
If you can get past the tight part carefully with lots of lube and time, it can be a pleasurable time for her, as it can put pressure from a different agle and a woman can even orgasm sometimes.
For those who say its not natural, considering that going down town for lunch wouldn't be then either.
In the end (excuse the pun again), it will have to be her choice. She is more likely to agree if she feels you love her and want to share the experience with her and not be in it for yourself.
2006-09-01 09:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jacqueline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. It's a personal decision only she can make. If it's not something she's willing to do, you're outta luck. You have to decide which is more important, anal or your girlfriend.
2006-09-01 16:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by Dasiavuu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In sex matters,is better if the couple have a full agreement without hurt each other.If they have sex in good agreement (doing whatever they want),that is cool and better.If you tell her what you want, and she say not;forget about it.
2006-09-01 16:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Promise her you'll make it pleasurable for her too. Start with lots of lubrication, followed by some finger work and finally penetration. Take it slow and easy. Be gentle. Please her as much as you can before, during and after. If you do it right, and make it pleasurable for both of you, she's more likely to agree.
2006-09-01 16:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Perplexed Music Lover 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have her insert the biggest dildo you can find up your butt and let her see the delighted look on YOUR face. That should do it. A picture is worth a thousand words.
2006-09-01 16:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, Not possible. For most women the anus is an exit only. Don't push her on it, just accept it and get on with life.
2006-09-01 16:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you like to have anal sex.....It hurts most woman.If you like her it shouldn't be that important to you. If it is that important find someone who likes it. All people don't like that.
2006-09-01 16:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can't, if she doesn't want to. It's not meant for everyone, would you lie something up your anal cavity
2006-09-01 16:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The Anus is not meant for sex. Every part of the body has its use. It is perversion. Desist from it.
2006-09-01 16:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by mirch 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should try it first and then get back to us on the its ok part!
2006-09-01 16:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋