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i need help cause i dont know what to do heres my story
i have had things happen to me in the past few year that wernt my fault but the upset me so much that i find my self cryin my self to sleep. my life was goin fine for a few months then all of a sudden i started to cry alot or feel like crying. my friends have knowticed that i have been quieter and not as much fun. and when i here this 1 song that didnt used to upset me now makes me cry. the song is outside looking in by Jordan Pruitt. every time i here this song these day i start to cry. im not thinking good about my self lately. i think im fat(im 4'11" and weigh 99 lbs.) i hate my teeth and my hair and b4 i thought i had kinda manly shoulders but i just recently found out that one of my best friends said that i did have manly shoulders.honestly i think if fat and ugly. i dont know y i been feeling like this lately help me please


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i though i had let every thing in my past go but im not sure now im just really confused about everything

Answer 1

your under depression for your previous life. you have to look back and think about what caused it like a boy or family member. you arent fat. im 13yrs 5'7" 142 and im not fat. just give yourself a chance and you'll see yourself a different way. you shouldnt hurt yourself. alot people get emotional you arent the only one. to me your really thin but not to thin your perfect you obviously have low self esteem about yourself just think what you like bout yourself and it willl help plus comments will make you feel good get braces if you dont like your teeth do watever you got to do tomake yourself feel good go out and live get boy do something but dont stand around thinking your fat when your not. your missing out on alot.
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Answer 2

You are 99 pounds and YOU think your FAT?
my dear, I suggest you see your doctor ASAP and ask for them to refer you to a psychiatrist or a therapist so you can get to the root of your problem. not only are you going through depression, but, you are blaming yourself for the things you just could not control. You are acting as if you're the one who caused the pain.
Also, you may also be suffering from a bulimic complex, that is where you think you are fat everytime you look in the mirror. Let me tell you, you are NOT FAT.
And, as for your "best" friend to comment that she thought you did have manly shoulders, do you think she did that to tell you, "jokingly", that you were paranoid? Depression is not a joking matter. I would make an appointment with my doctor to see what is wrong with me. I hope you are all right.

Answer 3

It might be depression. have u always had such low self esteem? I learned a long time ago that there is no use in hating urself, u cant change it! Embrace what you have! Play up the good and down the bad! And always remember that Life in general sucks. Everyone has problems EVERYONE. Thats what makes life Life. You gotta make the best of what u can, get over what u cant and move on. Look to the future and figure out what makes u happy!

Answer 4

The way you feel, is not a weird thing, many girls feel like that. And all those things that have happened to you in the past is, now making you feel depressed. I say learn to let things go, or else, you will end up seriously harming yourself. Because you dont, might be one of the reasons you feel you are big. I guarantee you, you aint big at all. Im telling you dont let things bug you so much. Oh and crying is a medicine, so it may be your only way of releasing the negative energy. Try talking to someone you trust, that may just help.

Answer 5

For the love of pete you aren't fat. You got to start thinking good about yourself and love you for who you are and not what you look like. It doesn't matter if we are the best looking person in the world. We will lose it one day when we get old. Love you the you inside and stop crying about stuff. You should think positive and if that doesn't work go to the doctor you may be depressed. The 20's are some freaky times for most. You feel dumb and like crap all the time. You got to set your mind to getting out of the dumps and fine something to make you happy. Not somebody tho. Learn to love yourself for what you are.

Answer 6

Okay first of all, is this what you do all day long is sit and worry about this crap? There is a whole world out there and your biggest worry is having manly shoulders? Maybe you ought to stop and listen to yourself a little bit. Only you can fix this problem, but you have to want to.

Answer 7

That doesnt sound to good. being 99lbs is def. not fat. maybe you should go to the docter. they could give you anti depressant medicinces, or try to help. my friend used to cry whenever she heard a certain song, and she'd have alot of bad thoughts about herself. Her moods where just up and down. she went to the doctoer, and they dignosed her as Bi-polar. now-adays, shes been feeling great about herself, and her self esteem is so much higher.
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Answer 8

what u have is depression,if by chance u know what depression is, it's when u feel just like u r feeling rigth now, u feel ugly, fat even though u r not i mean hello, i'm 110 pounds. u feel like nobody pays attention to u, but just wait later you will feel better this is a phase, so don't worry.p.s i am a teen, i know how u feel.

Answer 9

you have one more hour to wallow in your pity party, then i want you to pick yourself up and get on with life! you are the only one who can change your circumstances. don't whine, move!

Answer 10

What happened anyway? You can contact me if you want to talk.