My pastor had a talk with me and my friend from church about it, and he said it wasn'g good for me. But if its not good than why is it feel good when your doing it? Especially when your doing it with someone else? Does that make me "you know"?
2006-09-01 08:52:24 · 15 answers · asked by Wilfred088 W 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
OK but why does it feel good?
2006-09-01 09:09:08 · update #1
Yes, masturbation is okay, but not because it feels good. I am sure doing drugs feels good too, but that stuff will damage your brain and body. Masturbation however will have no such side effects. So go ahead, go crazy with it.
But I will say that you should probably not spend too much time masturbating, because (1) you don't seem to be even capable of spelling the word. You should probably spend more time studing in school. (2) You mentioned that you're masturbating with someone, so that's actually borderlining on "having sex". Who knows, you may easily cross the line soon. And when that happens, there will be side effects!
2006-09-01 09:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Natalia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is OK...it's freaking great! Your pastor is lying to you based on ancient beliefs which have nothing to do with science or psychology. Masturbating with a friend does not mean you are gay; it is very common for straight guys to masturbate together (more common than most would admit). Go ahead, have fun! And visit this site for more information.
2006-09-01 15:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't make you "you know" but most people consider anything sexual a private matter. so the with someone else don't know depends on what you are comfortable with. masturbation is O.K. Been to Church and they always tell you that, but can guarantee that they themselves done it when younger if not still doing it. I have never found anything in the Bible that says it's wrong to do it.
2006-09-01 16:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by bbme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you are questioning it then you already know the anwser to your question. WHen in doubt don't do it. yeah everyone will make fun of this answer but if you are going to church and believe in God then you should follow his ways and really it does say pleasuring yourself and premarital sex is a sin. Good Luck fighting those demonds.
2006-09-01 16:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by brunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what the hell is going on. Usually pastors and "divine men of god" will say those things. But your gonna believe what you wanna believe no matter what he says. It's a natural thing and guys are gonna do it, sorry thats just how life is.
2006-09-01 16:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by DLB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't catch the meaning of with someone else as in foreplay? other than that nothing wrong with masturbation it's natural everybody does it i do !!! I'm sure your pastor has to a little do what i say and not what i do on his part!
2006-09-01 17:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by Pete K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is either a troll post, or you clearly don't get out much.
i haven't figured out which one it is yet.
Edit: upon the addition of the 'okay, but why does it feel good' i've come to teh conclusion that this post is not real, is a troll, and should be ignored as such. No one is really that dumb.
2006-09-01 15:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by banzai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation isn't ok.... It's great! It's one of the healthiest things you can do!!! Ask your pastor this... "Would you rather me pleasure myself, or impregnate a young girl while pleasuring her??"
2006-09-01 16:17:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no ur not gay and ur paster is telling u its no good b/c it supposedly a sin but so is sex befor marrage and people now are doing it all the time so just ask for forgiveness during confession
2006-09-01 16:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you mean by "doing it with some one else"
Usually masterbating is done alone
2006-09-01 15:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by GD-Fan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋