2006-09-01 08:03:09 · 33 answers · asked by Candi 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
start building ur self esteem, ur childs gonna need it. stop being selfish cuz now ur gonna have another human being totally dependent on u. time to grow up and face the responsibility that you've avoided the last 22 years.
2006-09-01 08:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by mex-o-funk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is 14, you do not convice her of a few thing...you tell her. Yank her out of faculty and deliver her to stay with some different person in yet another city or state. turn her international the different way up. Why does she have a cellular telephone. Take that again continually. the problem is there is not any administration. In authentic existence a 14 year previous should be going to college and coming instantly homestead after college to do homework, eat dinner, watch some television and then pass to mattress. what's her day like? the position are you after college, at artwork? you want to be her existence and make her existence the existence she must have at this age. A 14 year previous shouldn't in any respect be allowed to have a boyfriend in the first position. on the instantaneous, tell her her courting is over. No communicate. Then locate some different person for her to stay with for a lengthy time period. someone that couldn't take her crap and could implement the guidelines and the regulation. Why ought to you ever enable a 14 year previous to this element a 18-19 year previous guy in the first position. Parenting is the problem on all factors.
2016-12-06 02:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are medical complications and she needs to be on bed rest-chill, and take care of your health
Provided that she's healthy and there are no complications
1- Go to school. If you cannot afford college classes, take some community college or online classes for something you like and get some qualifications. There's ton of medical coding, accounting, IT, etc classes that you can take without spending a lot of money
2-Get a job- if your pregnancy is going OK, you can still do administrative type jobs through a temp agency, or baby sit for neighbors if they have babies (earn some $$ and some experience)
3- Be nice to your mother and help around the house. She didn't get you pregnant, so she does not have to suffer because of your pregnancy. Do not expect her to give up her job to baby sit your kid once you have it. Prove her that she made the right decision by supporting you- try paying some of the bills once you have a job, help doing chores, etc
4- Use birth control next time, please
2006-09-01 08:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by jimbell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what you want. Do you want to raise this baby, or do you think he or she would be better off with another family? Your mother is also going to have a say in this. No one else can make your decision for you. Look into your heart.
What do you see your future looking like? Baby or no baby, you're going to have to get a job some time. Maybe you'd like to go to school. Figure out what you want, and then work toward your goal. Good luck!
2006-09-01 08:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by greensock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your legs together or get on birth control!!
Waht kind of life do you expect to give a child when you don't even have your own life together! It is not the governments job or your Mom's job to support you and a kid!!!
Be thankful that you have a Mom YOU can live with! Be respectful to her, yourself and your child and get a job to support yourself. Be grateful to your Mother for everything she is doing for you!! Move out on your own as soon as you can so she can have her own life!!
You want your child to grow up and be a good for nothing and live off YOU? and then you can support your grandchild too!!
22 is old enough to have it together so get going on it!!!
2006-09-01 08:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you doing this yourself? probably wasn't the best time for you to be getting pregnant, but we all know these things happen. i would suggest you get a job asap because as soon as that baby comes you are going to need money, well even before the baby comes you will need money. so the first step is a job, second if you are doing this alone and you know who the father is (not implying anything i promise)you need to figure out if he is going to be in this child's life and if he is going to help you out financially. if not you need to get him for child support cause the way it seems you are going to need some help. i hope your mother is supportive because you can't do it alone. first things first get out there and find a job, you are bringing a life into this world that you are in complete control of and he or she deserves a mother who will and did do everything to make sure they had everything they needed. i hope everything works out for you and i hope you can get some help with this. good luck and congratulations, a baby is a wonderful thing,no matter what, i know you can do it, all you have to do is try. God bless.
2006-09-01 08:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, that when the baby is six weeks old or so, get a job, if the grandma wants to watch the baby, then use your paycheck to help supply groceries and pay light bill etc.
Thank the grandma for allowing to stay with her, and use her home, and then try saving up money to get a place of her own.
2006-09-01 08:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by sandrarosette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
22, pregnant and still living at home with no job? That's not good! If your not working, did you at least finish school? If not try going back to school, Don't just sit on your A$$ all day doing nothing.
2006-09-01 08:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by maribel_crrll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get up and get a job. or wait till you deliver the baby and get your life straightened out for your baby. i was 22 yrs old when i got pregnant with my son. i worked full time as a sales cashier at a reatil store. (that's was 40 hours a week, plus overtime and hour lunches.) and i worked there until 3 days before i had my son. and then i was on leave. for 6 weeks. you can do it to. pregnancy doesn't mean you can never do anything again, it means that you have to try to be better than everyone around you, becasue you're going to have a little one that will be looking up to you and loving you . get up already !!!!!
2006-09-01 08:10:31 · answer #9 · answered by MamiMe 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get a job! Get an education! Get your butt out of your mother's house! If you aren't able to support yourself on your own out of your mother's house...how do you expect to support your baby on your own. Become independent. I can tell you that I have had one of the worst lives growing up that you could think of... read the book "Child Called It" and I have overcome that and learned to become independent and take care of myself without any help from anyone. So if that is an excuse she would be using...well she can't anymore because if I can do it...so can she! I wish her the best of luck and hope she gets it together.
2006-09-01 13:00:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try first to get a job there are alot of agencys that can help you with that and they can find you a really good job makin 11 or higher an hour. once you get a job and your settled if your mom cant take care of your baby try putting him/her in day care i have my son and he loves it. after that try and go to school at night you dont want to be someone's assisstant your whole life and if your mom is helping you then take advantage that u dont have to pay rent or anything and try to pay for school and get a carrier that's what im doing and i can tell you im doin fine my parents help me too trust me go for it not just for you but for your baby . Goodluck I hope this helped
2006-09-01 08:09:41 · answer #11 · answered by lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋