its the first game of the season
and i want ton hang out with my friends
2006-09-01 07:46:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
hey im a senior in marching band and to be honest, it's not one of the best places to be. the games can run late (which is not the safest time of the day) whoz gonna drop u off and pick u up, fights can break out pretty fast.
However if u really want to go, see if your mom will go with u to the first game. if she feels fine w/it then u can go to other games. but right now im recommending seeing your friends in a better place.
2006-09-01 08:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by crazyhorse1643 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well perhaps you could see if your mom has plans tonight. ask her if she would like to go with you. you don't have to sit by her or do anything with her, but at least she would get the piece of mind knowing that you are behaving. No one would have to know that she is there with you, it could be your little secret. If she goes to this game, then she would be able to see what it is like there, and then would be better able to make a decision as to what to do for the rest of the football season.
I know that it might be hard for you to understand her reasoning if she says no, but it is important to remember that she is looking out for your best interest because she loves you very much, and she doesn't want anything to happen to you. Keep your chin up, and just roll with the punches.
2006-09-01 08:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by rabika97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for a kerfew, tell her the people you will be going with, who is driving, where you will be, and set a few times where you will promise to call and check in at home.
You might not have much luck if you have poor grades, or a history of discipline problems... you have to earn trust with your parents.
2006-09-01 08:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im a mother of a highschool student....she has to attend the football games because she is in the marching band.....if your football games are like my daughters, I wouldnt let you go either.nothing but a hoochie fest at the football games..my daughter said it makes her sick to see girls her age acting like hookers.....sorry, but Im on your mothers side on this one
2006-09-01 07:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by bitchy_woman_yet_sweet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on what age u are if ur 13 and up than just tell ill my cell phone u can call and check in and i will call and check in with u and tell her u will be home as soon as the foot ball game sis over
2006-09-01 07:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you already know she wont or shes already said no.. the question is why... once you figure that out it will be a lot easier to figure out how to get her to (hopefully) change her mind..
2006-09-01 08:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by Kim2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi M! Just ask her. .She'll let you go because its the beginning of the year and she wants you to make friends and be happy.
2006-09-01 08:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her and tell her you'll call in check in and you'll be home at a good time.
2006-09-01 07:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by Sondra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why won't she let you go?
2006-09-01 08:49:26 · answer #9 · answered by Karen N 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋