After the rejection,(2 weeks) i went back to talk to him.When he saaw me he was surprised."hi,can i talk to u"?" no,not now, it is not the right time"."i just want to talk to u for 5 minutes"but he kept saying "not now,come on monday,come on monday"."but i'm here now and i also want to give u something"."give it to me on monday"."why not now?i can't on monday"."i'm with another girl now"he said.i could tell he was with someone else,i just wanted to face the truth,to say it in front of me.And there it came"i don't mind i said."u don't mind?he said very surprised."No i don't,i just want you to think of me as your friend,nothing more than that"i said."ahh ok"he said.By the way the thing that i gave him that day was a nice painting that i did for him.he saw it and said"it's very beautiful".Then i left thinking the view that i saw in front of me,when i knocked on the door,him wearing only a towel arround his waste.Fiew days later i was devastated.
2006-09-01 07:44:14 · 4 answers · asked by carmela 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u need to move on.. u got ur confirmation when he left u.. why cause urself more misery...
2006-09-01 07:47:27 · answer #1 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sister~ it sounds like you have invested some emotions in someone who doesnt feel the same way. There is nothing wrong with wanting to hear the truth and its fine for you to say "I just want to be friends".but you have to be willing to receive what he says and mean what you say as well. I pray God mends your heart and you will be ever careful in the future about who you give it or the fruit of your talent (paintings) to, amen?
God Bless you and keep you..
2006-09-01 14:50:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will forget him and you really need to let this go. He is with someone else and he told you that. Your not his type but that doesn't mean that your not someone elses type that is even better then him and better of a person then he could ever hope to be. We all go through rejection and then we pick ourselves up and go on with our lives and other people. Sorry it happen, and I am sorry it hurt like it does and like it did......... but I have no doubt that you are a very beautiful person....... inside and out....... and its his loss. NOT YOURS. BLessed be.
2006-09-01 14:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. When will you young women get it through your heads -- he's just not into you. Give it up. Stop wasting your energy and emotions on someone who isn't interested. Stop worrying about whether or not he wants to be "just friends". Just let it go already -- you're starting to look desperate and pitiful.
2006-09-01 14:49:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋