i want my mom and i to be like best friends but she only wants to spend time with her boyfriend and we barely talk. how can i get my mom to show me that she loves me and spend time with me?
my mom is not those kind of moms that u can talk to. she is different. it sucks having a mom thats only 31. and she says that she wants to spend more time with my cousin so they can BOND and that makes me more sad that she doesnt want to spend time with me. =`(
i understand that she doesnt want to die without getting married and she wants to have another kid but i just feel alone. so most of the time wen im sad i talk to my friends cuz i know they understand me. all the time i feel like she doesnt want me and that im a mistake
i really want her to be a part of my life right now cuz wen im all grown up she might not appear in my life that much
2006-09-01 07:42:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
and im 13 years old by the way
2006-09-01 07:51:40 · update #1
Write her a letter and say EVERYTHING you are feeling. Sometimes writing it to them eliminates the chance of having an argument.
Let her know that lost precious time spent with you will hurt you and her now and in the future. Let her know that she is your mom and that no matter how she is that her daughter should be her priority.
She has a lot to learn about parenting, she should be ashamed of herself.
2006-09-01 07:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't talk to your mom try writting her a letter telling how you feel and how much you love her. my granddaughter had that kind of problem with her mom. they wrote letters back and forth. until they could talk to each other better. you seem to be mature enough to get you point across and be her friend. she can spend time with both you and your cousin and bond with both of you. but please at lease try the letter exchange with mom. don't mail it just put it where she can find it while you are at school. put to mom on it. and when she writes you back she can put to daughter. i hope you do get her to understand how you fill. i will pray for you both.
2006-09-01 08:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by grams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have a mom who is young too. You need to pull your mum aside and tell her what you wrote. Just be honest, tell her spends to much time with her boyfriend and that you want to spent time with her. Tell her that you feel loney and sad. make her aware of the situation and hopefull she'sll be more understanding of the situation and she will spend more time with you. Good luck.
2006-09-01 07:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by kara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom is 36 and is a single mother 2 so she dates alot but i just have 2 deal with it and i usally talk 2 freinds 2 that helps a lot...
i guess the only advice i can give is just tell her how you feel and confront her on what she is doing...that is the only thing that i know that can make a diffrence...
p.s.i am 13 2
2006-09-01 09:56:02 · answer #4 · answered by mj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter. You really need to let her know how you are feeling. If those ideas don't work then talk to another adult like an aunt or uncle and have them talk to her about how you are feeling. I hope you can get through to her. Just be patient.
2006-09-01 07:47:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow this sounds like my life it is sad i know but unlike u my mom and me use to fight only cause she took her anger out on me to im thirteen also and how i over came this was i moved in with my dad and his soon to be wif e and step kid (thats the only bad part about it she is a spoiled brat ) but my mom realized what she would do with out me all i can do is pray 4 u sincerely marissa p.s. my mom is 32 tough huh
2006-09-01 09:44:09 · answer #6 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is still pretty young. You do not say how old you are. You do need to get her attention somehow. Ask her to set aside an afternoon for the two of you to hang out and discuss this with her.
2006-09-01 07:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by cytopia1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her that you want to spent more time with her. its really hard to be a single mom bc she still wants a life and now you are old enough were she can go out and have on
2006-09-01 10:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 06:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to ya mom once she understands how u feel things will chance I swear
2006-09-01 07:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by Sondra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋