I do. I think it's just human nature to be jealous. But I get really jealous when my boyfriend looks at other girls especially if I'm with him. Because I know there are other prettier girls than me and he looks at those pretty girls.
What do you think?
2006-09-01 07:27:27 · 12 answers · asked by dewdropinn 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I think that the Internet should be redesigned to explicitly prevent people from posting this question. Seriously. I've seen it too many hundreds of times (usually in the form "Why oh why does my boyfriend look at other girls??? What is wrong with him? Oh, woe is me!").
It is something that you REALLY have to get over. If it bothers you so much that you wind up going to the Internet and asking, you've gone way over into the deep end. Just sit back, calm down, and think about it a bit. It's not a reflection on you, it's not an imminent threat to your relationship, if you do lose your boyfriend, it was going to happen anyway, but if you obsess about this, you're going to drive him away and label yourself a fruitcake. Just relax!
2006-09-01 07:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, first of all I had to sign on just to answer this.. When I read this it gave me an ache in my heart that you found that how horrible, honestly I don't find it fair. If you are in a relationship, you are in one. If you want to do that ( check out other or be with others) then don't waste someone's time who is commited. Boys in high school do those things, men do not. Think about what you deserve I'm not saying freak out but I am saying have a decent talk with him. See what his opinion is on it and if he can't have a normal conversation about it and understand you there obviously is a problem... Good luck darling
2016-03-27 03:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It IS human nature to take a look....as long as he's not touching, you have nothing to worry about, and you can always tell. As for the jeliousy issue, that unfortunatly stems from insecurity...You just have to remember that you're beautiful, not just physically but rather from the inside out, and that hes with YOU and no one else, and for good reason!
No worries.
2006-09-01 07:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jinx . 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It does upset me, not only when my boyfriend does it, but when guys i'm hanging out with in general do it, especially if they are dating one of my friends. It just seems very rude of guys to focus attention on someone else, making girls with them feel insecure and ugly. I think in respect for your girlfriend or friends, guys shouldn't do things like that around them, or talk about other girls being hot or something like that. I don't get that jealous, because i know they don't really mean anything by it, but i just think its disrespectful and rude.
2006-09-01 07:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by Calamity 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
hate to tell you, there is always gonna be someone prettier than you and me, thats life. ITS HUMAN nature, men are visual creatures and women well, the way you get jealous if the way women are.
I dont understand it though cause if my husband looks at another women , I'm like nice butt huh? yeah shes hot. It doesnt really phase me.
2006-09-01 07:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I think it is the way he/she is doing it. Now if he/she is oogling, drooling (you know what I mean) then that is way beyond RUDE!
I also am the one to think that he/she should be in love with me and not want to look at other women (fast stare, fine but any longer than there is a problem).
But some men (not all) have a staring problem. They are not all like that. Some are discrete and that is being respectful.
2006-09-01 07:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by Angelcupcake 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't love your boyfriend, do you?
It's okay, it's not really human nature to be jealous, it's just your ego that makes you jealous. You're unconsciously getting jealous about stupid things, because of your ego. But at least now you know that you don't love him. You're loving him with you're ego. Why don't you try this next time - when he looks at other girls, try to accept the fact that you're indeed not the prettiest girl in the world, and when he flirts with other girls, let him. Don't get mad. If you do that, he'll get mad at you too, and then guess what's gonna happen. You're gonna break up! Just love him whatever he's doing, and that way he'll love you even more. And you'd know that you really love him too.
Good luck!
What's human nature is that everybody wants change. You can't be with the same person for too long. You get bored, and then you start looking at other girls. That's human nature. If you accept that, you won't be jealous anymore.
2006-09-01 07:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by Maus 7 · 1⤊ 5⤋
Its natural just like boyfriend look at other girls is natural
2006-09-01 07:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by solutionask 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that there is nothing at looking at the menu even if you already have food. I am married and love my husband, but if I see a cute guy I'll look at him for the pleasure of beauty.
2006-09-01 07:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by Delphine F 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Umm I wouldn't know the feeling because my past boyfriends have never looked at other girls when i was around, but that was probably because they are respectful... And my past boyfriend was really handsome and theier would be girls all over him but he never stared at any girl while he was with me... Maybe you should think about what kind of boyfriend you have now, because it sounds like to me that he doesn't respect you enough for him to just stare at other girls while he is with you... Maybe it would be ok if he were with his friends, i mean it doesn't hurt to look at other girls, but when he does it when your around its kind of sad, plus the other girls might feel sorry for you.
2006-09-01 07:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by cremedelacreme 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋