I’m 22, Japanese girl. He’s 26, Persian. I'm doing my master degree in Malaysia and he's doing his PHD degree in Malaysia. We've known each other for one month. During the one month, we traveled a lot. Since then, he asked me to share the exact half of all the expenditure with him, and I always pay the exact money. From the second time we met each other, he holded my hand everywhere. But he would loose my hand if he ran into his friends. At the third time he touched my face many times in the cinema. The fourth time he put his hand inside my skirt. And I told him I like him very much cos he’s a gentle, good-looking and smart PHD. I asked him if he likes me but he said he doesn’t want to answer. I dunno it’s a joke or he doesn’t like me at all. And since then, I was not so excited to meet him cos I think he’s just playing with me. He never answered me whether he likes me or not, but every time he invited me to come to see him. He told me he wants to stay in Malaysia, and I really think he would like to marry a Muslim woman instead of me for his obscure words. So I really wanna stop the relationship with him. No matter I leave him or not, my heart is broken now.
2006-09-01 07:20:25 · 4 answers · asked by Ilikeraisin 1 in Travel ➔ Asia Pacific ➔ Malaysia
Yea.... Persian are like that touchy feely kind of people.... He probably does have a crush on you... But feels like it's wrong for him... Like he';s rebelling.... this is a tough one..
2006-09-01 07:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by Miss LaStrange 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you for real?? Get a grip!
Firstly, the 2 of you've known each other for only a month & he already has his hand up your skirt?
Sounds to me like he sees you nothing more than a fling.
Also he seems to be really shady/ sketchy.
I don't think cultural preference is the reason why he's being so cold to you. He's probably not into you in the first place.
Forget him, move on.
You'll find someone who'll appreciate you for who you truly are.
2006-09-01 23:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just having a casual boy-girl relation with you. And looks like he is not willing to take it to a deeper level with you. You will have to face the facts and move on with your own life. I am sure you will have many more opportunities, looks like youare smart and still young, so be patient for your right one to come along.
Finish your master well and get a nice job. Guys will be attracted to you naturally.
2006-09-02 01:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by peanutz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you ask the same question twice?
2006-09-01 14:22:54 · answer #4 · answered by Russ Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋