I don't talk about my problems or feelings and I hate when other people do that to me.
I never try to impress people with heroic stories of myself and I hate hearing it when other people expect me to listen to one of theirs.
I don't ask anyone for nothing, It bugs me when someone wants me to do something for them.
Am I anti-social or just need to find peope more like me?
2006-09-01 07:16:20 · 25 answers · asked by aaron g 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
They say talking about problems is the best way to solve them, but I am with you. When something is bothering me, leave me alone to deal with it in my own way. Which, I do and then I am fine. Maybe we are very strong willed and strong minded as opposed to anti-social and can cope with stress/problems better than some. I too feel sometimes that I am anti social, but when i am around people even if i am not in the best of moods I am cordial and pleasant. People have enough of their own problems to have to listen to someone else's. So what am in doing in YA ????????? Just contradicted myself big time lol.
2006-09-06 12:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel . You just want to be left alone but still be surounded by people without having to give up anything . Your presence should be enough. It could be that you dont trust people at all in fear they will judge you on the points or the feelings you present. There is absoulutely nothing wrong with you. Just in a moment where you question everything and also might be a little uptight.
Dont worry so much and let go slowly pf some of your hangups. You will fell better . But its only if you want to.
2006-09-01 07:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by dramaqueen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am very much the same way. But, I would not call myself anti-social. I enjoy interacting with people in a social setting. I just do not share my problems and feelings with others (why bother them with that) and I do not brag (who wants to hear someone brag) and I do things for myself (why bother someone else to do what I can do on my own), and I expect the same from everyone else. Nothing anti-social about it.
2006-09-01 07:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by Icy U 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So why are you doing it now? I bet you are a teen. Why do you care? Think about it, if you have a problem when people are telling these heroic stories about themselves why on earth would that bother you? If you really look at it, it's due to the fact that you have never done anything like that because you are too afraid, so you are jealous of them. I think you need to grow up or stay this way and go into politics.
2006-09-01 08:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by Scott 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well in this world we cant live alone we have to social, if u like to be what u want ... i am afraid ... u will not have a friend to be with coz u don't want to communicate with them and u will end up and feel alone. people have a lot of problem in their lives. Also with us. People talk about their problem its because they want to have someone to listen, want to relieve of such burden, want to have a solution and don't want to be stress etc. U never told or asked someone to help you that's what you are ... but I'm afraid what happen with you in the future .... if you have a big problem and you wont share it to someone who can be trust .... it will make you get a depression and no one cant near you because you close your heart.
If u find a friend with a same character like you are ... humm ... thats wont help u either ... coz there is nothing you can talk about ... probably you and she/he just silent, and if there are conversations it just only a chit chat with no meaning at all. It will bored u.
2006-09-07 18:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by Happythrower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you may not fit well socially, but that is not a problem. You have yet to aquire a new beggining to life that you may be the phocus of attention, but if that is the case, you had better have something good that people are interested in othwerwise, you are just there and no body pays attention unless you say something or they get curious about you as to why your quite.
2006-09-07 01:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not anti-social perhaps. Selfish rather. As well as coward.
You don't actually want to commit yourself to others because you must be afraid they might find out your weaknesses; you're afraid that your "heroic" achievements would mean nothing to them; you don't want to do them favors coz they just might return the favor that will make you feel you'd owe them even bigger.
I'm sorry but I think you won't live much longer anymore because you want to think that you can live without the people who whines to you, the people who share their stories of any sort, and the people who would've been there to help you. It just can't happen. And if you think you're cool, you're wrong. Rest in peace.
2006-09-01 07:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mike N. D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are talking about your problems with other people now.
Maybe you just need some good friends so you can air these things with as opposed to a bunch of strangers on the internet
2006-09-01 07:22:59 · answer #8 · answered by Bohemian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don think u r anti social u r jst simply don wan to get connected to the outside world and keep all the thing to urself. if u r antisocial u wont ask the question in yahoo answer and i get to realise that ur in level2. if u noe ur problem overcome it. no ones noe u better than u do. no one can help u except u
2006-09-01 07:24:50 · answer #9 · answered by john 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont talk about your problems. is it because your scared what other people might say or tell you? you dont tell any heroic stories of yourself. is it because you havent done any? or maybe just scared to tell coz they might not be good enough? you dont want to do something for people? is it because you dont want to feel being told and ended up feeling like some servant?
please dont take me negatively but i think you just need to grow-up!
2006-09-06 01:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by xen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋