2006-09-01 07:14:33 · 13 answers · asked by rousesbrothers 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Well since none of us on here are doctors, let alone fertility experts lol don't you think he should see a doctor and have his sperm tested so you can know the truth and get a real legit answer? lol
2006-09-01 07:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by Island Queen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry of what your husband thinks. You must think that you CAN get pregnant. To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that your eggs are being released.
After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into your mouth and check your body temperature every morning before you start turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. Tell your husband to ejaculate on his inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.
After having sex you must stay in bed for about 30 mins with your knees bent up with a pillow under your buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.
Get your husband to save his sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.
2006-09-03 02:37:27 · answer #2 · answered by donp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband thought the same thing. If your cycle is normal, try having sex 12 days after the first day of your period. The 12-14 days after are the only 3 days a month you can get pregnant. This only works if your cycle is normal. If this doesn't help, go see a doctor. I have a 6 and a 20 month old.
2006-09-01 07:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by tslittlen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is a bunch of Bull. My husband was a little nervous about it also because he had unprotected sex with his girlfriends in the past and non of them got pregnant and weren't on any thing either. I got pregnant 2 weeks after having sex with him.
It just depends if your ovulated when you have sex. It has nothing to do with ex-girlfriends.
If he is really worried about it, he can go to the doctors and get tested to see if his swimmers are good for bad and see what his sperm count is. Sometimes it just takes a long time to get pregnant and sometimes it takes as little as a couple of days. It just depends.
2006-09-01 07:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by Tired-Mom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
His past relationships may not have produced a baby due to the precautions the women were taking without his knowledge. i.e. birth control pill, IUD, depo shot, etc...
Stop using any contraceptives and wait a year or two. If you still haven't gotten pregnant, then make appointments for both of you to see a fertility doctor. He/She can run the proper tests to determine if you two can have a baby together. If it will be difficult, like he has a low sperm count or you of you is sterile, then they can give you all of your options. They can also help you to decide which one has the best chance of working for your situation.
2006-09-01 07:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
So what? If you wnat kids, you know what to do. If he doesn't think he can then he won't care about when you two do it.
Then, if it happens, it happens. If not, well I guess he was right. However, I know one couple who got their "surprise" about 15 years after they got married.
So unless a doctor says he's a dud, nobody knows for sure. If you really want to know, that's why they have doctors.
2006-09-01 11:32:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he cant have kids then you need to go to the adoption center and get you a child and you will be better off that way
2006-09-05 04:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by ~~~~**im to hot**~~~~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to get pregnant........... if it doesn't happen, then both of you go down to the doctors together and figure out together what the problem is. Good luck........ blessed be
2006-09-01 07:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your husband is an idiot...men just don't think with anything other than their penis's
2006-09-01 07:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so happy that he didn't get any of his other girlfriends pregnant. Now he will be able to give you a child and no one else.
2006-09-01 07:21:29 · answer #10 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋