He is 30 and we already have 4 boys. We have the means to provide for another baby, but he has said before that he is getting too old to have anymore. I desperately want to try for a girl, but if I don't get one that would be okay too. I need a way to ask him if he is willing to try for one more. This one would be the last. Our youngest is 1 yr old. What should I say to him?
2006-09-01 07:11:46 · 13 answers · asked by Not the one for you! 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
The real reason you want to have another baby is the chance of having a girl. Who wouldn't want a girl? We are sooooo cool. Let's be realistic there is a chance you will have another boy if your husbands y chromosome fails to appear on conception night. If you want a baby have a heart to heart with your husband. Let him know how you really feel about the issue and go from there. If he says no you should respect his feelings. If he says yes keep in mind it may be a boy and have fun making a baby. Good luck and God bless!
2006-09-01 07:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you want one more which is a girl. I believe he want a girl also since he have all boys. Of course, he would say yes to you. He is 30, still young. But 30 with 5 kids total already, that is a lot!
Just tell him that this would be the last one regardless if it was a boy or a girl.
2006-09-01 07:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by kathy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. Tell him you'd really like to try for a girl this time, and if you don't get one, then you'll get your tubes tied, or something of that nature. There's no harm in asking. My fiance is 30 and he's overjoyed at the prospect of having a baby now. He's even said that since I'm not getting my girl this time (this will make 3 boys) that we can try again later. I don't know if I could handle having four kids myself, but I thought it was sweet that he'd say that.
2006-09-01 07:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by jenpeden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly look at yourself and ask if you really want the baby for the babys sake, or yours? Whats wrong with boys? I have two myself. What if you have another boy, do you really want the subconscious pressure that he isnt what you wanted? What about the pressure on the boys, the more you talk about a girl must make them feel like they are not good enough for you. I know how much you must want a girl, but if he honestly thinks he is too old, another baby will put pressure on you, him, and the marriage, not to mention the boys. Make sure that its what is best for everyone and maybe talk with him.
2006-09-01 07:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-06 05:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by sikorski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should say: hey, i want a baby and all, but it will be too much. it cost you a lot of money you know and it is just better if you play it safe. Anyway you have to worry about insurance for all of them, and the house or where ever you live and the car and all that great and fun stuff. Anyway r u trying to make a record or something? You never know, the kid might have a problem or something. if u really want to and gotta plan for money, go ahead knock yourself out!!!! girl friend
2006-09-01 07:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by backspacepeople 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you might be a tad disappointed if you didn't have a girl.
I know you say you wouldn't be, but I think you would.
You should just enjoy what you have. Take care of your boys & be happy!
2006-09-01 07:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by Doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa you have a lot of children...anyway i think you should have a rest and wait. you should just care for your boys (the 1 yrs old) wait for another year...
2006-09-01 07:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If four kids are not enough to fulfill your maternal feelings I think you should examine why you want another one. Can't you think of other things that would be satisfying for you?? I am with your hubby on this one.
2006-09-01 07:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, would you like to have another baby?
2006-09-01 07:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by kari45385 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋