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I trusted a 'friend' and i find it hard to trust because of stuff i don't want the world knowing and i told him some problems of mine and he helped me through them and then he tells people about my secrets. right now i am angry but when iv cooled down maybe i will think differently about what i should do because i know he didn't hurt me on perpose but he hurt a friend i would say was a best friend yesterday...what do you think i should do ?

2006-09-01 07:01:35 · 8 answers · asked by Charlie V 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

8 answers

find a new friend

2006-09-01 07:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If he had been your friend, he wouldn't have told anyone your secret. However, if he hasn't done anything like this before, and you really believe in him, then give him another chance. But if he screws up again, tell him that it's not worth having him as a friend. You shouldn't have to be a "friend" of someone that tells your secrets and hurts you and your friends.

2006-09-01 07:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by limelight_story 2 · 0 0

I'd say he's a backstabbing heartbreaking a$shole. Find some better friends and if that person doesnt understand then its time to give him a reality check. Spill all his secrets, cause revenge is a *****!

2006-09-01 07:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 0 0

just tell him that he's gonna have to earn your trust back before he'll be hearing anything else. And be extreme with it. Like don't tell him at first who you dating, or where you are really gonna be this saturday night. That will probably make him feel bad for his actions and then he will try to earn your trust back

2006-09-01 07:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sit down with him and tell him how you feel. Then, don't confide in him ever again.

Personally, I stay away from people who've betrayed my trust.

2006-09-01 07:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

maya angelou said "when people show you who they really are, believe them".......she meant that if you see someone cannot be trusted, you may choose to remain friends with them, but don't forget they can betray you because it has already happened once!

2006-09-01 07:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

tell him how you feel, exactly how you feel. ask him why he has done this.

we are vulnerable even in friendships because we don't know what our friend will do once we open ourselves up.

2006-09-01 10:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

take it easy you don't really need to worry abt it...thngs happen..it's life...all you need to do is look at the sky n say God please forgive him for his acts cause he doesn't know what he is up to...man does stupid things only when he can't decide wht's right n wht's wrng..n such people really need help..so you need to pray for them then bein angry..cheers!!!!

2006-09-01 07:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by Spacetod 3 · 0 0

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