can a threesome wrecked a relantionship? my b/f wants one but he justs wants it to be me and the other girl in bed and he will watch. is that wrong to kindof wonder what it would be like? please nothing stupid this is serious.
2006-09-01 06:47:35 · 12 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sorry i meant wreck a relantionship
2006-09-01 06:48:06 · update #1
he said that if i did want to give it a try i could pick the girl or he would pick her for me? is this wrong? is he presureing me or what should i do? i mean i am kindof curious but i dont know if i should or should not.
2006-09-01 07:21:15 · update #2
Well lets put it this way,if wile you getting down on that other young lady, you may learn that you really like it..or even when shes doing you, sure it could wreck the relationship,you wount need him any more..On the other hand it may be a real turn on knowing he watching..Been there sweety and believe me its sure was a turn on for me... just wait till you get down there and slip your tongue in her, you'll see.. Well what ever you do , Good luck, and you come back to my 360 and let me know what you thought when its over...X/O your friend from Tennessee,,,ROB..Keep an open mind sweety...
2006-09-01 07:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your b/f is a jerk. Sorry, just my opinion. Why doesn't he just rent a video/DVD of that nature and spend a little "alone time." That would get him pretty close to what he wants. He is either stupid or insensitive. Either way, not a great quality in a partner. Lose the jerk. You can do better. How do you think this will go, a few weeks down the road, a month, a year?
Well, it's not like you're going to take my advice, nor should you. You will need to find out for yourself. Good luck!
2006-09-01 06:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet it WILL break up a relationship. If he likes what he sees, he'll want more. He may want to participate with the other girl. How will you feel? He make get disgusted with what he sees? Then what? What if this is not enough? How many different girls will he want to see you with? How many different girls will he want to be with? How will the other girls see him? Maybe they'll want him exclusively. What if you decide you like girls better than him?
Look at all the potential problems. This is nothing but trouble. It is a guy wanting to use you for his pleasure without caring what it does to the relationship.
This is doomed to failure.
2006-09-01 06:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as long as you dont "fall" in love with the girl and you are not jealous people it should be fine, this is every guys fantasy and i think that if you love a man you should do whatever makes him happy, just talk to him about it and tell him that you dont want to ruin your relationship you just want to give him what he wants and make sure he feels the same way!!
2006-09-01 07:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by LUCKYGIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a threesome if it's just you and the girl with yiur b/f watching. Only do it for you. If your not interested in girls don't do it. Threesomes always turn out bad if feelings get involved. I'm not for it and will never consider it.
2006-09-01 06:54:05 · answer #5 · answered by SS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threesomes are often a fantasy but they are dangerous. Jealousy almost always kicks in. But I suppose everyone who is interested has to find out for themselves. What happens if you get really interested in the other girl, what reaction will you get from your boy friend?
2006-09-01 06:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that the girl-on-girl fantasy is very prevalent, but I feel it should remain a fantasy. Every person I have ever known that did the "group" thing was dissappointed.
2006-09-01 06:52:06 · answer #7 · answered by sjpadilla1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was my now ex who wanted to bring in the other girl. It was the worst thing i ever did. It is every guys fantasy to do that, but it can turn into his worst nightmare realy fast.
2006-09-01 07:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you would like to try a threesome but with him and another guy. I bet he isn't so "hot" for it then!
2006-09-01 06:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by cytopia1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfriend has a seperate attraction to the girl that your doin a treesome w/ then yeah it can ruin ur relationship, but its not wrong to wonder what it would be like.
2006-09-01 06:53:33 · answer #10 · answered by IMNOTOKAY!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋