Cause my boyfriend of 2 years has changed so much. he doesnt want to spend time with me much anymore, he always wants to be with his friends, everywhere we go this one friend of his has to go. it's never just him and I anymore. he doesn't stay at my house like he use to,instead he stays home playin poker online. or he uses the excuse you know I like to stay home and watch poker. He never sets out any time for just him and I anymore. I love him with all my heart. But he needs to make a seriouse change cause I don't know how long I can take this. He says he loves me to death but anymore it doesn't feel like it..
2006-09-01 06:30:10 · 12 answers · asked by Jenn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'm 24 , and he's 27
2006-09-01 06:37:35 · update #1
maybe i would start with his gambling problem . if that's more important than u then i would rethink the whole situation. Don't wanna be 10 years down the road owing everyone he knows money and the mortgage is due . Ur Boy friend has a problem with gambling first then he needs to worry about the issues in the relationship , if he loves u he will get help .
2006-09-01 07:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by ~~*Brownie*~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is give him a wake up call. Start doing that to him.. Dont call him for a couple of days, keep yourself busy ( I know its hard) but its worth it if it works. When he asks you to hang out, tell him you have plans with your friends (even if you dont) and make yourself unavailable. Sometimes people get so comfortable in a relationship, they see how much they can get away with. If he asks you what is going on, tell him, well I told you that I wanted to spend time with you and wanted to do things together, but if you dont want to I will do what I want by myself. Ir should work and he should get the point if he really cares. If he doesn't find someone who will make you happy. Good luck.
2006-09-01 06:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should come before his friends and definitely before playing poker. Does he have an addiction to it? Remember this: Few men are worth your tears and the ones who are would never make you cry anyhow.
2006-09-01 06:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like there's a big discrepancy between what he says and his actions. May be you should have a heart to heart and give one another "time off," to figure out what it is you both want. Don't be afraid of this, sometimes sbsence makes the heart grow fonder.
2006-09-01 06:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by hopscothchbunnies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember who you are not the hopeless romantic he made you! Where are your friends resume your life get you some business and go out and hang out with your home girls if you don't have any well go shopping do something that's just for you and he will notice allow him to miss you-Many blessings to you
2006-09-01 06:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by phoxy phat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know if he doesn't change he will lose you...if that doesn't wake him up to change then nothing will and i suggest you really leave him because he is only causing you heart ache
2006-09-01 06:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you both are, but life's too short for games like this. It will be hard to do, but get on with your life and if you both are truly meant to be together, you will.
Good luck!
2006-09-01 06:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by Angie P. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure he knows how u feel and if he doesn't change move on it would be hard but alot easier than feeling this way every day be strong there is more fish in the sea!!!!
2006-09-01 06:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by jungle cheeks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him that you want to spend time with him!
2006-09-01 07:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him hes not worth it
2006-09-01 06:36:15 · answer #10 · answered by elltea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋