i still cant stop feeling bad about haveing sex be 4 marriage, its like i have been brainwashed by the pakistan people, their way is safer i think, i no god wouldn't want me to have sex, so why should i be forgiven, i just feel bad and its not in me to feel like this, i just wrote to u all about the same thing, this is really getting to me but why, i dont no what to do now or where to turn, its like my whole life has been a major stuff up,
2006-09-01 06:09:12 · 5 answers · asked by louise 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If this is how you feel , don't drive yourself nuts over it .ASK GOD for forgiveness the only sin that is unforgivable is Killing your self . Most times and I do mean most of the time we are much too hard on our selves. Ask for this and then LET IT GO !!!
2006-09-01 08:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no use crying over it anymore. Whats done is done and crying really wont help. You will be forgiven. If you feel so strongly about it, just dont do it again. If you dwell on the past, how will your future be bright? Most people in this world has had sex before they were married. You are only human and make mistakes like everybody else.
2006-09-01 13:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Repent To God , and promise Him that ya will not do such thing again , ya will be surely forgive, because its He who created ya, He is Most Mighty and Most Merciful.
Fight against ya Evil Desire ,God will help ya Inshallah , "May Allah's Peace and Mercy be upon you" Ameen
2006-09-01 15:18:11 · answer #3 · answered by afrasiyab k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.. i believe that no matter if you are married or not, if you loved that guy, that's only natural.. don't worry about it.. no one will look inside you and tell "what a bad girl you are" .. its so lame.. just get over it.. what if you would marrie one guy and than realize that you don't match in sex? than it would be too late, so ..
2006-09-01 14:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by she 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well, theres nothin you can do now. how old are you?
2006-09-01 13:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋