What would you do if your ex and his wife caused problems every time you picked up your child?

Question

It's something all the time... money this.. he wants to do that..even going so far as to call the police because they say he didn't want to go with me (he wanted to go somewhere else). They even call every other night with some kind of issue...any answers???

Answer 1

Oh, the pickup and dropoff would then be in the parking lot of the police station.

Answer 2

Is there an order for visitation? If there is they shouldn't even question or call the police. As a minor whether your child wants to go with you or not is not a choice. If it's your time them it's your time. I think that your ex and the wife has some issues that they cannot deal with. I would consult an attorney or child advocate. Meet at a neautral place set guidlines like at McDonalds at 5pm. Set consistant rules. And it should only be you dropping off or picking up and your ex. This child is between you and he. This sounds similar to what I dealt with. Or do the one week with you and one week with the ex. Unless there is a good reason for them to call you(like an emergency) they should respect your time with your child.

Answer 3

Who has custody? If he does I am sure that you could take him back to court and ask that something be done about this behavior and abuse of the police system. Why dont the police say anything about them calling over dumb stuff? Does your child want to stay with them? How old is the child? Too many questions really to answer that question.

Answer 4

Wow what a tough problem you face. It is never easy when somebody wants to cause problems and that is what this seems like. Perhaps you need to try meditation. Its like counseling for grownups. Or perhaps you could meet them someplace for coffee with out kids and try to talk this thru. Not everybody puts their kids first and it sounds like they want to be nasty. I wish you the best. You also need to limit the time and when they can call. Unless it has something to do with the child and needs to be answered right away, inform them that you will be screening calls, and do it! I did that and my ex finally got it! (ok it took several months but it was worth it)

Answer 5

Document the events on a mini-micro cam everytime you go ! A judge would just love to watch what transpires ! If. you got a close friend who owns a video camera have 'em (from a distance and hidden) document the event ! this will assist you with ALL your claims ! Be smart and get two steps ahead of them !

Answer 6

I would nolonger pick my child up or drop my child off at there house. I would meet them at a public spot and have little to no conversation with them at all. In other words get your child, put your child in the car and say thank you as you get in and close the door, don't engage or respect them with comments to their grummbling. And if you don't have custody......... I would let the machine pick up everytime they call...... I would get all the reports from the police for everytime they called them, and them would take them back to court and fight for full custody.......... NO DOUBT!!!!!!!!!!! I would work 3 jobs if I had to just to have the money to get my child back!!!!!!!!!! Blessed be and good luck.

Answer 7

Start writing all of this down and hire an attorney. Maybe you need a court order that they have to drop your child off instead of you picking up.

Don't get our of the car, the child can simply come to you and get in the car.

Answer 8

The husband and his new spouse can rather attempt to acquire a restraining order against the ex spouse in the event that they have data of the harassment. Then the ex spouse will purely have the skill to touch them concerning to the toddler in touch. yet this might via no skill help the husband to get out of paying the toddler help to the ex.

Answer 9

See a good Attorney

Answer 10

I agree with Christina.