I am the only female in a four person crew on an oil platform. We are out here for weeks and I know the tension makes the guys start fights. I could relieve some of that tension for them, but would that be too slutty to consider?
2006-09-01 05:56:49 · 25 answers · asked by Isis 7 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Best to avoid intimacy with any of them. Let them work it out for themselves, and keep yourself to yourself.
If you end up having sex with even one of the men, you'll just get a bad name as the oilrig s'lut. Worse, word would likely spread, and the next thing you know, jerks from other oil platforms might start coming on to you. Even onshore, you wouldn't be safe from men coming on to you, based on your bad reputation.
Relief is one thing, but in a business such as offshore oilrigs, reputation is /everything./
Steer clear of them all, honey, and let them wonder - but allow them to do no more than wonder.
Good luck.
2006-09-01 06:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by fiat_knox 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can do whatever you want but consider a couple of things: sea men gossip more than all the women in the world so either
you'll be the ***** of the whole crew because they expect you to do all the time,or you'll be a ***** because you're professional and reliable and the chat will be over, after a while>And what about the your reputation with the company as a working woman ?
2006-09-01 13:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would that really relieve the tension, or create more? As it is now, they are already fighting, apparently, as you seem to think, over your attention. Whom would you do first. last, or not at all? And more importantly, who would you then favor more often, or never again? This could cause even more problems.
It is admirable that you would be willing to do this for them, and you should not be ashamed of it. If you do do it though, and only for the reasons you claim to be thinking about doing it, I would recommend a group orgy; that way they would all be enjoying it at the same time.
Ironically, the hated term "sl*t" is perpetuated more by women, than by men. Men generally only refer to a woman that feels free to enjoy frequent sex, as a "sl*t", when they are not one of the ones she wishes to be with.
Good luck with whatever choice you make, and rest assured that whatever that choice might be, it will be the right one.
2006-09-01 13:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should go down that road unless you want to have a reputation of being easy. Guys won't think you are doing it to help them they will just think you are an easy ride and take advantage of you. You are worth more than that and I'm sure the oil platform is a very lonely place when you have no real friends. Be friends with them but leave it there, after all you are there to work.
2006-09-01 13:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by koolkatt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Babes, the choice ultimately comes down to you anwhat you want. Don't do things just because you think it might 'help' guys.
As for if you decide to aid some of then, it could only be 'slutty' if you approach them as being in someway loose or come on too strong.
Good luck and remember you are in control
2006-09-01 13:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by bigbowlofsalad 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it would be if you want a reputation as the oilrig ****. It will stay with you for the rest of your life. You could also get an STD or pregnant, or ruin a marriage, fo you want any of that??? They will have no respect for you if you do provide the "relief". It's a dangrous game to play hon. BEWARE.
2006-09-01 13:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Yvonne D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah go ahead , get the "easy" nickname. I think you do not need to do anything. Thats what masturbation is for. Why would you want that name for yourself? Every male would want to go out on the platform with you... I sure wouldnt want that for me.
2006-09-01 13:28:20 · answer #7 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are an oil worker, not some "pleasure princess".
If you choose to do so for yourself, fine; but when affections get shared, it could cause more fights as each male decides who "owns" you.
2006-09-01 12:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds great to me. Three guys for the me is just about right. Go for it as the situation may never be there again.
2006-09-01 13:00:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not forsake yourself to apease the crew.
If you form a bond with one of them then thats your own business but dont whore yourself out just to stop fights.
Do they have any porn? magazines, movies? dolls?
2006-09-01 13:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by friskygimp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋