he wants a divorce and were still leaving together because were waiting for my permanent visa.i just wanna know how can i stop my feelings because everytime i saw him i wanna hug him just like before.how can i stop my feeling and move on evev though were still living together.
2006-09-01 05:50:06 · 12 answers · asked by jesse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i want to move out but the problem is im waiting for my permanent visa.here in japan they dont give you visa if you dont live in one roof.thats why its very hard for me.i want to go but i cant.
2006-09-01 06:14:05 · update #1
you can't move on living under the same roof
2006-09-01 05:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried telling him how you feel or is it definitely over? Maybe you can work things out.
If not then the first step is to move out, you are still under the same roof so nothing has changed really. It will be a struggle for you as you obviously still love him but you have to move on for your own sake as he doesn't feel the same. Don't waste your life wondering what could have been, get out there and LIVE for yourself.
2006-09-01 06:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by koolkatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to try and not be there when he is. You need to take classes or find a job that takes you away from the house the time that he is there. The less time you spent around him and the more independent you become the feelings will subside.
2006-09-01 06:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by wild_orchid_tx36 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if this helps, but I am going through similiar. You must find other things to occupy your mind. As far I am concerned, the feeling to give her a hug or kiss becomes overpowering and I only will suced in bothering her more
2006-09-01 05:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by mark g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't move on without moving on. Once you don't live together, the feelings will go away in time, as long as you focus on different things and find something that makes you happy.
2006-09-01 06:05:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is no way you will get back together you will need to move out, it will be easy not seeing him. you can just turn your feelings off, you have to find someone else and focus on them you eventually forget about the other person. good luck to you.
2006-09-01 05:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by jame_football 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try an get your visa then see what comes next its not gonna be easy but u'll need to let go
2006-09-01 06:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by just_a_slim_guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you have to move out to start moving on
2006-09-01 06:05:28 · answer #8 · answered by cslynn1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him to move out its not good for you then start going out and flirt with guys but dont sleep with them but if you love your husband talk to him see some-one professionally
2006-09-01 06:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by paris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and have some fun girl ! Get your mind off things and start enjoying yourself and it will help you take your mind off him
2006-09-01 05:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by eckingtonblade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋